I live in Tampa, have for 16 years. We have considered moving to every known area here and in Pasco county. The property taxes have gotten so high, so has homeowners insurance, we're holding tight to see what happens with those two things (they're lobbying right now, with little hope, to reduce these things) before we move. Bear in mind if you move into a planned community, you'll have HOA fees and CDD fees to pay as well and just because you move into a community, it does not guarantee that your kids will go to a good school or even the school you think they will go to. For instance, there is a nicer community called Westchase. Really nice, we've always wanted to live there because the majority of families who live there have children. Lots of kids playing in the street, community pools, elementary and middle school in the community. But some people who live in this community had their kids re-zoned a year or so ago to another less than desirable school and the people were furious. I'd be too if I paid all that money to live in there and then my kids got moved.
A friend of ours is a high school teacher at Wharton High School in New Tampa and says she'll never send her kids to public schools there or anywhere else in this area. She sees what goes on. The Florida school system doesn't have such a good reputation. They have been so desperate for teachers in our district, they hire peopple with 4 year degrees and put them through a certification program to become teachers because they don't have enough teachers! Our kids, luckily, will be going to a charter school until 8th grade and who knows how good that will be....then we'll send them to private high school.
Where will you be working? That will help in making a choice of what area to look for. Tampa is huge and without knowing how long of a commute you'll have its hard to say where for you to look.
New Tampa is very popular and has grown alot.
Here is a link to a realtors website that lists houses for sale with the names of the communities, which really helps.
http://www.tampa4u.com/
I don't know the realtor, but use the site to look for homes all the time.
Good luck!