Thanks to you all who posted support on my previous freak-out post! I hate to sound like a cry-baby about the whole thing, but hopefully that will be my first and last major breakdown!
Now that I'm no longer having a custom, I have a couple of questions regarding the intimate/escape wedding.....
This cake and champagne thing after the ceremony...where does that take place??? I'm not planning on having the ceremony at the WP....probably YC, BW, or Poly....where do they put you there? And how long does that last? Does the violinist stay for that?
Has anyone had/is having an intimate that did a cake tasting???
And finally (for now), if I have a 10 am ceremony on a Monday (which I might change to evening if a Friday is available), where should I go after? I kind of hate breakfast.....and I can't think of a "special" sort of place to take everyone after....some of my family might have to leave that evening, so I might not be able to stretch it out to dinner......any good lunch ideas???
Okay...one more
Are you having a shower with your intimate??? I'm literally only going to have my parents, sisters, BIL, and nephews there.....I don't suppose anyone will be insulted they're left off the guest list....but can you still have a shower??? I am not planning an at home reception, b/c I live in South FL and everyone else is in NJ.......if I could afford a sizeable reception up there, I'd probably be able to do the custom down here!
Thanks for you patience!!!!
Now that I'm no longer having a custom, I have a couple of questions regarding the intimate/escape wedding.....
This cake and champagne thing after the ceremony...where does that take place??? I'm not planning on having the ceremony at the WP....probably YC, BW, or Poly....where do they put you there? And how long does that last? Does the violinist stay for that?
Has anyone had/is having an intimate that did a cake tasting???
And finally (for now), if I have a 10 am ceremony on a Monday (which I might change to evening if a Friday is available), where should I go after? I kind of hate breakfast.....and I can't think of a "special" sort of place to take everyone after....some of my family might have to leave that evening, so I might not be able to stretch it out to dinner......any good lunch ideas???
Okay...one more

Thanks for you patience!!!!
