I haven't stayed there, but I would vote Swan as long as it works out to a savings even factoring in airport transportation. However, I am highly biased towards staying in the Epcot area. We were honestly not super impressed by Wilderness Lodge. The boat was nice but we couldn't use it if we were traveling at a busy time of day because it would fill up fast and the buses moved more quickly. Frankly, when traveling with a stroller, I think it is best to either stay on the monorail line or stay in the Epcot area where you can walk to two parks.