I don't believe they will waive the fee anymore. Think of it as an itemized portion of your bill and maybe it will be easier to handle. I have had motels/hotels in the middle of winter, with everything closed down in northern Michigan, charge our entire hockey team the resort fee when the only thing still available for use was their small little pool. Resort fees are becoming quite common. I was glad at the Swan I felt I at least "got" something with my resort fee! We called down for extra sugar for DH's coffee. Less than five minutes later we not only had an entire bag filled with packets of sugar, but more coffee packets in another bag! First trip that we NEVER ran out of coffee! DD used the health club, both kids used every pool on resort property numerous times, and every night I was posting to the DIS, "Live from the Swan" for free!
Have a wonderful trip!
Debbie