So, again, when you book your ticket, make sure it matches the ID you're going to use. If you're going off on a honeymoon right after the wedding, book the airfare in your maiden name.
I'm not sure why you're making this so difficult. How many millions of people fly with no issue, but have a shortened name or nickname they go by? Are there people who mess up when they book their ticket? Yes. But it's because they messed up. There are also people who mess up and try to carry a gun through TSA. Or scissors, or many other prohibited items. It's because they messed up.
When we named our three kids, "what name will be needed if/when the fly" didn't even factor into the decision.