String's Atkin's Journal (Please Comment)

[Strings]

Hello everyone,

I did manage to make it to the Y today. I did 3 weight circuits, 4 miles on the treaddie, and some free weights. I'm tired, but it is a good tired. Katie is a bit tired, so I think she will nap. We are on our own tonight. There is a shareholder's meeting at work, and he is then going out to dinner with his boss. I can't exactly whine about that. He is hoping to find out when his next project starts. I think Kaitie and I will head to the nature center for a walk. We may be able to find some deer.

Won and I talked about my going back to work full time. I know that many kids are in daycare, and they do great. I also know that Katie will be going to school fulltime in less than 2 years. Right now, she has so many issues with her food allergies and asthma, I really want to keep her with me. I am lucky that I can just work weekends. Mondays will be killers, but I think it is really important right now. Next summer, I MAY put Katie is daycamp all day. If I do this, I won't do 3 12 hour shifts in a row, so I will get a bit of a break. i di tell Won that I expect more help around the house, if I am full time. I think we can make this work, or at least I hope so.

I called the dance studio today. Kewlly was really cool about it. She told me that Katie was the youngest girl in tap, and it wasn't a big deal. We're crediting my account for ballet. She seemed surprised that I wanted to pull her out. I explained that my main goal was for Katie to have fun. Her studio attracts alot of stage moms. Some of the girls are in pageants. She thought that was great and refreshing.

I will be hitting journals throughout the day. I am sorry that I didn't get to many yesterday. I was wiped out. I have been taking my vitamins, but I think I'm still recovering from this weekend.

Have a good one,
Beth

 

[LAinSEA]

Beth:

I think Katie made the right decision...she is an "old soul". While I enjoyed Tap more than Ballet (still do - if I could find an adult class that fits my schedule), Ballet is more important to get down while you are young.

Going back to work FT doesn't sound fun - my sis works a .8 which allows for benefits and is 3 to 4 days a week depending on whether she is doing 4 8's or 3 12's (she likes the 3 12's). But it is rare that she gets out of the hospital on time...hopefully Won will get a really good assignment, close to home, more $$$ and all this will be moot.

I hope you get a chance to rest...

-Laurie

 

[wilderness01]

It will be hard Beth but you will make the 3 12's work. I work with nurses that do this because of childcare situations and although they say it is hard on their family, it works out well. Hang in there. Thanks for your posts to my journal.....

 

[DoeWDW]

Dear Beth, such difficult decisions we have to make for the sake of our families. I know that if necessary you will make 3 12s over the weekend work. I am hoping that it doesn't become necessary.

I'm sending some extra your way and hoping Won's meeting went well last evening!

 

[CheapMom]

Hey Beth- I hope your new routine works for all of you. And yes- if you have to make a change and have more 'normal' schedule and have Katie in daycare- that will be fine also. She will do great out in the world either way.
As far as Won helping out more around the house- you might want to get that in writing. I increased my hours at work 3 weeks ago and I swear it looks like a bomb went off in my house. I don't think I will ever get caught up on the laundry!
Wishing you a happy OP Thursday!
Mary

 

[Strings]

Thanks for the sunshine Doe. It is cold and raainy here.

I'm not feeling very well today. I'm a bit nauseated and have a headache. I did manage some toast this morning, so on into my day.

I've started laundry. I need to clean the downstairs bathroom and straighten up the living room and kitchen. My mom is coming over for dinner. I'll break the news that I'm going full time then. She has been VERY vocal about how she likes that I work only part time. She'll get used to the idea eventually. She is very dissapointed that my DS works fulltime. I know it is a different generation, but I still feel like I am dissappointing my mom. Katie and I are going to the Y. I think I will probably do a little biking. I definately won't push myself. We also need to go to the library. All I really want to do is go back to bed. Oh well, real life stinks sometimes.

I'll try to pop into journals here and there.

Have a good day,
Beth

 

[traceycooper]

Hi Beth, hope you have a good day and mum doesnt cause you too much stress!!!
I worked full time for a few years when my DD was around Katies age as i was a single mum then (Ex DH decided the grass was greener!) I found the time i did get to spend with her was more quality time than quantity time, i'm sure everything will work out for you. Take care XX

 

[Princess Michelle]

Beth, my prayers are with you today, I hope you get to feeling better soon and that everything goes well with your mom tonight.

 

[sharoncity]

I hope all goes well with Mom tonight. It shouldn't be too bad since Katie still wouldn't need to go to day care. And heck, she just needs to understand, you can't pay the bills right now, so you have to do what you have to do. I'm sending that it all goes well.

I hope you are feeling better - you've had enough to deal with already this week!!

Have a great weekend Beth! I won't be around till Monday. Hope it is a smooth one for you!

TTFN-
Sharon

 

[wilderness01]

Your mom will understand that you are doing the best that you can. Good luck with your talk tonight.

 

[toystoryduo]

Sending and your way today, Beth. I hope you are feeling better and that your meeting with your mom went well. Take good care of you!

Tracy

 

[Strings]

We've been having computer problems. My connection is usually lasting less than 5 minutes.

I never made it to the Y yesterday, and it was rainly, so no workout yesterday. My back/neck are still acting up. I am only going to do a lower body workout today. I am keeping the motrin going. I did not sleep well last night.

The talk with my mom went well.My mom reminds me of Molly Weasley from the Harry Potter books. She is very vocal about her opinions, but would do anything for her children. She actually offered us $, but we turned her down, We are adults and we can take care of ourselves. I told her to take that money and go on a cruise,

I am heading to the Y. Depending on my connection, I'll try to get to journals today. I need a nap. I'm working 2 12s this weekend. I probably won't be able to make it to most journals until Sunday. Sunday afternoon, we're supposed to go to the apple orchard. I hope the weather cooperates.

Take care and have a great weekend.
Beth

 

[septbride2002]

I'm glad the talk with your Mom went well. I love the Harry Potter books, especially Molly Weasley. Take some time for you, rest your neck and get the important things done - everything else will fall into place.

~Amanda

 

[DoeWDW]

Glad to hear you have such a supportive Mom, Beth!

I'm sending some pain-reducing, healing your way - hope you're feeling better soon!

Best wishes for easy shifts this weekend.

 

[wilderness01]

Glad your mom was understanding. Hope you are feeling better soon.

 

[vald1977]

Hi Beth,
I'm so sorry I have been MIA this past week. I'm glad that your mom was so understanding. I am continuing to keep you and your family in my prayers regarding PG and Won's job.

I am wishing you a peaceful and stress free weekend, Beth. Please rest that neck/back as much as possible .

 

[Strings]

I'm on break at work. I have a patient that the family insists we do everything. She is basically dead. I am so frustrated right now.

I have had WAY TOO MUCH coffee the last couple of days. I really need to cut back. I did make it to the Y, and I felt much better after that. My back is still touchy, so I am not lifting. It is lucky that I am working with the boys tonight.

I am not sure when I'll next get to journals. Everyone is in my thoughts. Have a good weekend.
Beth

 

[septbride2002]

Beth, I hope things at work got better for you. Remember to get some R and R for yourself today!

~Amanda

 

[traceycooper]

Hi Beth, glad it went well with your mum! Hope work & your weekend goes quickly and smoothly!

 

[Strings]

Well I am back at work. I walked in and one of my patients went asystole during my initial assessment. It was a blessing, but not the way I like to start my shifts.

I didn't make it to the Y today, but I did do some ab work. Meals have been Op, so that is good. Katie has her bday party today. We'll see how many boyfriends she ends up with. Won is taking her, so I'll get lots of sleep today. It is cold and rainy here, so I will sleep well. If it clears up, we may go get Katie her pumpkin from the local stand. We will get another one from the orchard, but it will be next week.

Not much else to report.

Beth