I take a leaf out of my DH's book now. He never gives details to anyone calling us whoever they claim to be. We find even legitimate callers like our bank, BT & Sky etc always ask for us to confirm some kind of personal detail when they are calling us!
This is a
huge bugbear of mine and I think we should all lobby our MPs. The golden rule is that the
caller provides the answers to the security questions to confirm their identity. It has now become common practice for organisations to ask these questions when they make the call, but it
completely defeats the object. I have lost count of the number of times I have gone around in circles with these people: "But you phoned
me". "Yes, but I can't talk to you unless we can identify you". "BUT YOU PHONED
ME! Do you want to speak to me or not?". There is normally a confused silence at this point, then; "Yes, but I can't talk to you unless I can identify who I am speaking with". "OK, then. BYE!".
It seems funny, but it's actually extremely frustrating. I work for a major UK Bank and I have tried to get our policy changed, but I'm not getting through to anyone. These are the very people who, for years, have reminded me of the 'golden rule' - THE PERSON MAKING THE CALL ANSWERS THE QUESTIONS. If we all refused to answer these questions when we are on the receiving end, maybe we could get these practices changed.