First big question - how well do you know how your 2-yr old reacts to characters? Some will embrace the oversized plush critters, while others howl in fear, hide, or try to escape. Trust me, we have all seen it! You can wave off the characters if you see your child is uncomfortable, but then you’ve paid a premium for a meal that would be better priced elsewhere without the characters. Honestly, I would only book a character meal a few days into the trip, so it could be cancelled if there was any indication that character interaction would not be welcome.
I know that was not your question, so here’s my humble opinion on Crystal Palace vs Storybook Dining. Winnie the Pooh and his 100 Acre Woods friends tend to be more well-known for children, frankly because of their merchandise. Pooh & friends appear on just about EVERYTHING for babies and toddlers, as well as in books and a wide array of toy forms. Snow White characters, not so much. For younger children, I would say the Pooh characters would likely be more appealing. On the other hand, the Storybook Dining characters are very, very skilled in their interactions with all ages.
The Crystal Palace atmosphere is more than a bit chaotic. The movement around you never stops, and folks can be a bit disoriented when trying to co-ordinate trips to the buffet without missing a character visit to their table. The characters make individual rounds to all tables and during the average time span of a meal, each character will be at your table twice. You do not have to have them stop twice, they are just trying to make sure everyone gets at least one chance for a hug, pictures, etc. The big plus at CP is that YOU control the pace of your meal. You can hurry your party along if you wish, you just can’t hurry the characters! The food variety is good, while opinions on quality vary widely. You’d be hard-pressed to not find something you like. All in all, it can be a hearty, high energy way to start your day.
Storybook Dining is a far more leisurely meal, although service is very efficient. It’s always more relaxing when diners don’t have to serve themselves! Your meal arrives by course, so there is no way to gracefully speed it up. If your toddler is OK with spending some time at the table, that won’t be a problem. Snow White, Grumpy, and Dopey visit the tables individually and you will be given “an invitation” to visit the Evil Queen. For shyer children, I think it is a stroke of genius to have people approach the Queen, as opposed to the other way around. A photographer is there to capture your visit. My adult daughter & I dined there 2 yrs ago once and are hoping to go back on our Dec trip. If you are real foodies or picky eaters, you might find it underwhelming, but we enjoyed every course. It is a nice way to end a day, as long as no one is too tired for a longer meal.