Stopping solo travel due to age?

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I was wondering if anyone here, who took and enjoyed solo trips, at some point has said that fragility and inconsistent health has made them feel unsafe in traveling alone any more. If so, how difficult a decision was it? Or was there a way that made you feel more comfortable again traveling solo? I used to be perfectly happy traveling solo, but as I recently entered my 70s, I'm starting to feel a little uncomfortable about it. For example, I wonder, if anything happened to me, how long it would take before DH figured it out. Maybe when my plane arrived home and I wasn't on it? On this last trip with family, my DIL and all 3 of my DGDs ended up in Urgent Care, and she mentioned that they came to our resort to pick someone up. She spoke highly of how they were treated-that helped. I'm really just looking for encouragement to keep taking solo trips. Anyone here over 75 and still going to WDW solo?
 
Though I’m not traveling alone, it’s just me (75) and my guy (68), and we’ve both driven the 1200 (+/-) miles one way that it takes to get to the Fort, and flown into MCO to stay at the resorts.

For whatever reason the universe sees fit, we’ve gotten pretty sick at Disney with an array of issues from food poisoning to covid. While it was scary for the both of us to be flat on our backs for days on end without friends or family to give us a hand, we made it through with kindly cast members and a lot of over-the-counter meds. When I get sick I don’t like interacting with strangers, but the cast members will help (in my experience anyway) if they know you need it.

Some hints- please forgive if I’m preaching to the choir here :)

1) Make sure you have plenty of ID in your suitcases; I print out our names, addresses and info of a contact relative and put a copy in each bag.

2) Make sure you have a safe call partner, and pre-arrange call times that will fit your travel plans (can’t call on the flight, for instance), when you check in and out, and your basic plans for the day. If you’re a more detail oriented person, print out a copy of your itinerary for the trip.

3) Make a copy of whatever prescriptions you have for your meds (if any). Also, take along over-the-counter meds; analgesics like Motrin or Excedrin, cold remedies you’re familiar with, a thermometer, anti-diarrhea meds (ask me how I know that one…) and meds for the opposite condition. Disney, last I knew, charges an outrageous price for just 2 pain pills, doesn’t have thermometers, etc. While if you get sick enough you can to to the clinic/hospital Disney partners with, and _I believe_ they have on-call med staff they recommend, sometimes you don’t need that level of care and/or the med staff will want to know if you have a fever, etc.

5) As far as personal safety is concerned, of the many times we’ve flown domestically and internationally, we’ve only had one issue. Himself was careless of his wallet during TSA search (when one has to put belongings in bins) and his wallet was stollen. I kind of fault him as it was a very crowded situation and he took his eyes off his wallet that was by itself in a bin. But that was it. In that regard, I suggest making multiple printed copies of your flight ticket, and pertinent info, and put them in different locations. Never take eyes off your bins, as this happened basically right in front of the TSA desk at MCO.

We’ve had nothing but great interactions with cast members when we got sick; they were very respondent to our needs. But most of all, please know that millions of people travel to Disney every year, and the vast majority will never have health or security issues. We’ve been snake bit, and are NOT the norm.

Hope this helps some :)

(Edited to add: I removed point #4 as there was a link added that I didn’t put in there, and it went to a site I’d never visited and have no idea why my words were linked to it. I tried several times to remove it but it kept coming back, and without the words the paragraph didn’t make sense, so in the end I had to simply delete the whole point.)
 
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Though I’m not traveling alone, it’s just me (75) and my guy (68), and we’ve both driven the 1200 (+/-) miles one way that it takes to get to the Fort, and flown into MCO to stay at the resorts.

For whatever reason the universe sees fit, we’ve gotten pretty sick at Disney with an array of issues from food poisoning to covid. While it was scary for the both of us to be flat on our backs for days on end without friends or family to give us a hand, we made it through with kindly cast members and a lot of over-the-counter meds. When I get sick I don’t like interacting with strangers, but the cast members will help (in my experience anyway) if they know you need it.

Some hints- please forgive if I’m preaching to the choir here :)

1) Make sure you have plenty of ID in your suitcases; I print out our names, addresses and info of a contact relative and put a copy in each bag.

2) Make sure you have a safe call partner, and pre-arrange call times that will fit your travel plans (can’t call on the flight, for instance), when you check in and out, and your basic plans for the day. If you’re a more detail oriented person, print out a copy of your itinerary for the trip.

3) Make a copy of whatever prescriptions you have for your meds (if any). Also, take along over-the-counter meds; analgesics like Motrin or Excedrin, cold remedies you’re familiar with, a thermometer, anti-diarrhea meds (ask me how I know that one…) and meds for the opposite condition. Disney, last I knew, charges an outrageous price for just 2 pain pills, doesn’t have thermometers, etc. While if you get sick enough you can to to the clinic/hospital Disney partners with, and _I believe_ they have on-call med staff they recommend, sometimes you don’t need that level of care and/or the med staff will want to know if you have a fever, etc.

4) Get travel insurance if you can afford it. I personally didn’t care for the type my airline offered, but you may have contact with a person you have done business with in past, who you trust..

5) As far as personal safety is concerned, of the many times we’ve flown domestically and internationally, we’ve only had one issue. Himself was careless of his wallet during TSA search (when one has to put belongings in bins) and his wallet was stollen. I kind of fault him as it was a very crowded situation and he took his eyes off his wallet that was by itself in a bin. But that was it. In that regard, I suggest making multiple printed copies of your flight ticket, and pertinent info, and put them in different locations. Never take eyes off your bins, as this happened basically right in front of the TSA desk at MCO.

We’ve had nothing but great interactions with cast members when we got sick; they were very respondent to our needs. But most of all, please know that millions of people travel to Disney every year, and the vast majority will never have health or security issues. We’ve been snake bit, and are NOT the norm.

Hope this helps some :)
Very helpful info, thanks!
And regarding the anti-diarrhea meds, Disney charges outrageous prices for those too. Last time I needed them, I stood out in the hallway and just called for help, praying the "need" wouldn't kick in. Much safer to have some with you.
 
Very helpful info, thanks!
And regarding the anti-diarrhea meds, Disney charges outrageous prices for those too. Last time I needed them, I stood out in the hallway and just called for help, praying the "need" wouldn't kick in. Much safer to have some with you.
Just an FYI, you can get a single dose of those meds from the first aid center at any of the parks should the need hit if you happen to be in a park. My mom (74) was willing pay anything to get them one day at HS but none of the stores she stopped at carried them. A CM suggested going to first aid and there was no issue getting a dose, which thankfully did the trick. She does bring plenty of OTC meds from home but I guess she didn't think she needed to bring a dose into the park that day.
 
Just an FYI, you can get a single dose of those meds from the first aid center at any of the parks should the need hit if you happen to be in a park. My mom (74) was willing pay anything to get them one day at HS but none of the stores she stopped at carried them. A CM suggested going to first aid and there was no issue getting a dose, which thankfully did the trick. She does bring plenty of OTC meds from home but I guess she didn't think she needed to bring a dose into the park that day.
Thanks for the reminder! Years ago, I was in AK (shortly after it opened) and I developed a headache. Went to First Aid and they gave me 2 ibuprofen. I'd forgotten about that.
 
I live alone and travel alone. As far as something happening to you during your travels and no one finding out for days, I didn’t worry about it much until it happened to two of my single coworkers in unrelated incidents in their own homes. So I talked to my sister, and every day I send her a text between 12:00-2:00. If she hasn’t heard from me by two, she contacts me (so far, that hasn’t happened). We text a lot anyway, but now I make the effort to send that cute meme or news article at a specific time. If I am traveling where I can’t text at that time, I text early to let her know and then again when I arrive or can text again. It only takes a few seconds and it alleviates that anxiety. I did that recently when I evacuated for Milton, sending her a quick text each time I stopped for fuel and food.

I second the advice to travel with any OTC meds you think you could possibly need. It’s worth the peace of mind having it, even if it occasionally gets thrown out because it expires. A thermometer is also a good idea. I am not a coffee drinker and hate making tea in a coffee maker, so if I am staying in a hotel without a microwave in the room I take a glass mug and one of those coil heaters that clips on the side of the mug. It has come in handy for instant soup and oatmeal in the room when sick as well. I got the fever and chills flu while staying at WL years ago, and it taught me to be prepared to be unable to leave the room for several days.

Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Have a plan and share that plan with friends and family who are not traveling with you. If traveling internationally, get travel insurance that will evacuate you home and/or transport family to be with you if you get seriously injured or ill and end up in a hospital in another country. If you have a good plan and you are prepared, you can handle whatever comes your way. As far as when to stop traveling solo, perhaps bring up your concerns with your doctor for their opinion.

Wishing you safe travels for many years to come!
 
I was wondering if anyone here, who took and enjoyed solo trips, at some point has said that fragility and inconsistent health has made them feel unsafe in traveling alone any more. If so, how difficult a decision was it? Or was there a way that made you feel more comfortable again traveling solo? I used to be perfectly happy traveling solo, but as I recently entered my 70s, I'm starting to feel a little uncomfortable about it. For example, I wonder, if anything happened to me, how long it would take before DH figured it out. Maybe when my plane arrived home and I wasn't on it? On this last trip with family, my DIL and all 3 of my DGDs ended up in Urgent Care, and she mentioned that they came to our resort to pick someone up. She spoke highly of how they were treated-that helped. I'm really just looking for encouragement to keep taking solo trips. Anyone here over 75 and still going to WDW solo?

That's my plan, but I'm not sure I'll keep traveling alone much over 75.

I'm not yet 75 but a bit over 70. I drive from Maryland. I keep in touch via a 'chat' text with all 3 of my kids and a friend. That's daily and sometimes hourly but we haven't discussed monitoring yet. I think that's a great idea.

Part of my traveling/driving strategy is only driving while there is daylight and stopping overnight. I have AAA and also rental car insurance in the event of a break down. My car is in excellently maintained condition.

At Disney I wander quite a bit, offsite and onsite, so I try to stay aware of my surroundings. I'm not too worried healthwise but I think some of the ideas here are spot on and I will be having a conversation with the kids about this before my next travel. I do have monitored and managed health problems.

It would be nice to have friends that traveled at the same time and that happens sometimes. Will be meeting with family and staying together in Feb/March. Will spend half my December trip with family.

I would certainly prefer to have someone with me or even traveling separately to meet up with and have contact with on all my trips.
 
Great tips here.

Early 60s here and recently became a widow. I worry about this at home also. When will my children know if something happens to me. We talk often. Sometimes more than once a day but sometimes a day or two can go by without having a conversation with any of the three. Not often - but it happens.

I have always taken some over the counter meds with me (Advil/Tylenol, Colace, Imodium). Not a bad idea with bringing a thermometer and I need to google this coil heater mentioned by @fla4fun . Can always throw in some instant oatmeal in the luggage and instant soups. When I arrive, I always pick up some yogurt, milk, fruit in the shop. (This has always been the case with DH/the day will come when I will be taking a solo trip).

I do have one or two local friends I can call also in an emergency which helps.
 
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Great tips here.

Early 60s here and recently became a widow. I worry about this at home also. When will my children know if something happens to me. We talk often. Sometimes more than once a day but sometimes a day or two can go by without having a conversation with any of the three. Not often - but it happens.

I have always taken some over the counter meds with me (Advil/Tylenol, Colace, Imodium). Not a bad idea with bringing a thermometer and I need to google this coil heater mentioned by @fla4fun . Can always throw in some instant oatmeal in the luggage and instant soups. When I arrive, I always pick up some yogurt, milk, fruit in the shop. (This has always been the case with DH/the day will come when I will be taking a solo trip).

I do have one or two local friends I can call also in an emergency which helps.
A few examples of the immersion heater. There are dozens on Amazon alone. I take a glass mug to heat water in. It clips on the edge of the mug, you plug it in, and then just wait until the water gets hot. The water will get boiling hot if you leave the heater in long enough. I usually make my tea in one of the separate cups provided in the hotel room, so that all the glass mug is used for is heating water in a clean mug.

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A few examples of the immersion heater. There are dozens on Amazon alone. I take a glass mug to heat water in. It clips on the edge of the mug, you plug it in, and then just wait until the water gets hot. The water will get boiling hot if you leave the heater in long enough. I usually make my tea in one of the separate cups provided in the hotel room, so that all the glass mug is used for is heating water in a clean mug.

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Thank you!!!!
 
As someone whose father finally stopped taking long driving trips alone at the age of 98, I have to endorse the idea of arranging regular contact with your kids or other family. My dad would normally send us daily emails about his travels, and one time when he was in his late 80s neither my sister nor I heard from him for two days, so we called the hotel and ultimately law enforcement so that hotel employees could enter his room. He’s deaf, so we didn’t know whether he couldn’t hear knocking or had a problem, and we couldn’t call him because as far as he was concerned his cell phone was for him to call for help, and he kept it turned off otherwise. He was fine, quite surprised to learn we were concerned, and hadn’t thought to call us to say his email wasn’t working. He never failed to email or call us daily again!
 
Though I’m not traveling alone, it’s just me (75) and my guy (68), and we’ve both driven the 1200 (+/-) miles one way that it takes to get to the Fort, and flown into MCO to stay at the resorts.

For whatever reason the universe sees fit, we’ve gotten pretty sick at Disney with an array of issues from food poisoning to covid. While it was scary for the both of us to be flat on our backs for days on end without friends or family to give us a hand, we made it through with kindly cast members and a lot of over-the-counter meds. When I get sick I don’t like interacting with strangers, but the cast members will help (in my experience anyway) if they know you need it.

Some hints- please forgive if I’m preaching to the choir here :)

1) Make sure you have plenty of ID in your suitcases; I print out our names, addresses and info of a contact relative and put a copy in each bag.

2) Make sure you have a safe call partner, and pre-arrange call times that will fit your travel plans (can’t call on the flight, for instance), when you check in and out, and your basic plans for the day. If you’re a more detail oriented person, print out a copy of your itinerary for the trip.

3) Make a copy of whatever prescriptions you have for your meds (if any). Also, take along over-the-counter meds; analgesics like Motrin or Excedrin, cold remedies you’re familiar with, a thermometer, anti-diarrhea meds (ask me how I know that one…) and meds for the opposite condition. Disney, last I knew, charges an outrageous price for just 2 pain pills, doesn’t have thermometers, etc. While if you get sick enough you can to to the clinic/hospital Disney partners with, and _I believe_ they have on-call med staff they recommend, sometimes you don’t need that level of care and/or the med staff will want to know if you have a fever, etc.

5) As far as personal safety is concerned, of the many times we’ve flown domestically and internationally, we’ve only had one issue. Himself was careless of his wallet during TSA search (when one has to put belongings in bins) and his wallet was stollen. I kind of fault him as it was a very crowded situation and he took his eyes off his wallet that was by itself in a bin. But that was it. In that regard, I suggest making multiple printed copies of your flight ticket, and pertinent info, and put them in different locations. Never take eyes off your bins, as this happened basically right in front of the TSA desk at MCO.

We’ve had nothing but great interactions with cast members when we got sick; they were very respondent to our needs. But most of all, please know that millions of people travel to Disney every year, and the vast majority will never have health or security issues. We’ve been snake bit, and are NOT the norm.

Hope this helps some :)

(Edited to add: I removed point #4 as there was a link added that I didn’t put in there, and it went to a site I’d never visited and have no idea why my words were linked to it. I tried several times to remove it but it kept coming back, and without the words the paragraph didn’t make sense, so in the end I had to simply delete the whole point.)
Great tips. We should all travel with safety and security in mind.
 
As someone whose father finally stopped taking long driving trips alone at the age of 98, I have to endorse the idea of arranging regular contact with your kids or other family. My dad would normally send us daily emails about his travels, and one time when he was in his late 80s neither my sister nor I heard from him for two days, so we called the hotel and ultimately law enforcement so that hotel employees could enter his room. He’s deaf, so we didn’t know whether he couldn’t hear knocking or had a problem, and we couldn’t call him because as far as he was concerned his cell phone was for him to call for help, and he kept it turned off otherwise. He was fine, quite surprised to learn we were concerned, and hadn’t thought to call us to say his email wasn’t working. He never failed to email or call us daily again!

Amazing!
 
I was wondering if anyone here, who took and enjoyed solo trips, at some point has said that fragility and inconsistent health has made them feel unsafe in traveling alone any more. If so, how difficult a decision was it? Or was there a way that made you feel more comfortable again traveling solo? I used to be perfectly happy traveling solo, but as I recently entered my 70s, I'm starting to feel a little uncomfortable about it. For example, I wonder, if anything happened to me, how long it would take before DH figured it out. Maybe when my plane arrived home and I wasn't on it? On this last trip with family, my DIL and all 3 of my DGDs ended up in Urgent Care, and she mentioned that they came to our resort to pick someone up. She spoke highly of how they were treated-that helped. I'm really just looking for encouragement to keep taking solo trips. Anyone here over 75 and still going to WDW solo?
I am older and wonder should I really dont like to travel alone but
 
I'm 66 and still travel alone quite a bit, but I prefer having someone along. I don't have much family remaining, but I do travel with several different friends often. When I do travel solo, I am in contact with my friends at home a LOT during the day via texting, sending pictures, and so forth. And we have a free tracking app on our phones so we can see where we all are at most anytime. (Life 360) We're all kind of one big extended family, even though we aren't blood related.
 
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That's my plan, but I'm not sure I'll keep traveling alone much over 75.

I'm not yet 75 but a bit over 70. I drive from Maryland. I keep in touch via a 'chat' text with all 3 of my kids and a friend. That's daily and sometimes hourly but we haven't discussed monitoring yet. I think that's a great idea.

Part of my traveling/driving strategy is only driving while there is daylight and stopping overnight. I have AAA and also rental car insurance in the event of a break down. My car is in excellently maintained condition.

At Disney I wander quite a bit, offsite and onsite, so I try to stay aware of my surroundings. I'm not too worried healthwise but I think some of the ideas here are spot on and I will be having a conversation with the kids about this before my next travel. I do have monitored and managed health problems.

It would be nice to have friends that traveled at the same time and that happens sometimes. Will be meeting with family and staying together in Feb/March. Will spend half my December trip with family.

I would certainly prefer to have someone with me or even traveling separately to meet up with and have contact with on all my trips.
I also live in MD but not comfortable driving to Disney by myself and it’s cheaper for one person to fly instead of paying for gas, tolls,food and hotel. Also it’s only a little over 2 hrs to fly out of BWI.
 
I also live in MD but not comfortable driving to Disney by myself and it’s cheaper for one person to fly instead of paying for gas, tolls,food and hotel. Also it’s only a little over 2 hrs to fly out of BWI.
I agree with all the above!

However, I drive a small Hybrid, collect hotel points and other credit card points and have made my travel virtually free. I enjoy the trip and often stop off in South Carolina, sometimes using my DVC points there.

On top of that, I've used airline points or cash quite often to pay for family to fly as they don't always have the flexibility I enjoy. Often they have done one way with me and the other direction flying.

And, while at Disney I have my car so don't need a rental.
 
In addition to illness, aging can bring concerns about 'falls.' It's very tempting at WDW to keep looking up & all around instead of the ground we're walking on. Be aware that CURBS appear & disappear randomly as we wander about...(speaking from experience 🤕); busses may not always stop where they should & that last step off can be a doozy; and always mind the gap getting on & off moving transportation & attraction vehicles.
I also avoid being caught in a crowd, early or late hours (especially late at Food & WINE Festival 😉🍹🍹🍹) since it's dark and not everyone is "courteous" in their mad rush to rope drop or leave.
Each year, I'm more anxious about going solo to UK & at WDW, I'm more careful & a bit less carefree. But I'm not stopping until I have to. :hippie:

Groovy idea to create this forum :flower3:
 
Well, I hope never to have to travel alone. But my mom most of the time traveled alone until a month before her 89th birthday when she had a stroke. She never felt unsafe. She did travel differently. She traveled lighter, usually just a carry on and took clothing she could wash and dry in her hotel rooms with laundry soap she bought. She actually went to Europe for three weeks with nothing more than a carry on bag. She took a lot of cruises, including six to Mexico, but never stepped foot on Mexican soil her entire life. She did go ashore in the U.S. ports (San Diego and Catalina Island) but the Mexican port days were her day to mooch around on the ship.
The other thing she did was take my entire family with her as her treat, on the condition "we carry her luggage". She took us on two cruises and a trip to Canada like that in the last six years of life. As she put it, she wanted us to enjoy our inheritance while she was still here to see it.
 












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