Stepford Boyfriend?

DramaQueen

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My boyfriend is so perfect it scares me.
I think he's a robot or something/. :goodvibes

I've been having a REALLY tough week, lots of work, got in a fight with my mom, 2 of my cats were given away and I had a HUGE university audition.
Yesterday we had the day off and he comes in the morning with lattes and A DOZEN ROSES!!! AND he took me out for lunch at my favourite vietnamese restaurant!!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!
The last time I was given flowers was for my confirmation!! :rotfl:

I honestly cannot believe this boy. I'm hoping he's not to good to be true!!

And he lets me call him at like 3am if I need to (big psychological problems for this weirdy girl) And he deals with my emotional crap and my panic attacks so well. He gets along great with my family too!!

When my cats were given away on Monday he brought me over my favourite popsicales and every month on our anniversary he leaves me a little note in my locker and takes me out to dinner.

Have you guys ever met anyone like this?
boyfriend/girlfriends? friends? enemies? teachers?
people who seems so perfect it's scary?
are YOU like that?
 
awww. threads like this make me happy.:grouphug:

mike=perfect.

but he'd disagree with me if he heard me say that.
 
I've been having a really tough week right now too. But nobody IRL is really there for me, they're all worried so much.

Mason used to be perfect to me. I'm not sure even he could handle my emotional state right now.
 
I think my boyfriend is perfect...for me. He's always so sweet, no matter what. He constantly tries to make me happy. He spends as much time with me as he can, and even puts up with me when I complain about not getting to see him as much as I'd like.
We fight every once in a while, but our fights never last longer than...a day. Usually things are resolved in about 2-3 hours. And the only time we ever fight is at night, on the phone.

I know I'm going to spend the rest of my life with him. He knows he's going to stay with me, too, and unlike many guys, he's not scared about that. He honestly wants to be with me. :) It makes me happy.
 

This would be a good thread for me... if I had a boyfriend.

But my BBF is PERFECT.

She has the right amount of popularity, grade point average, weight, height, friends, and she has a lot more money then me. She's been asked out at least three times in her life, and i've never been asked out once. She blends in with the popular people, and they love her. God forbid I say hi to one of these demons and they'll bite my head off. Everybody loves this girl. Sometimes (please forgive me) I get very jealous. Like for instance, she's going to Mexico for spring break. Hooray, I feel really happy for her, honestly do! But how does that make you feel when you don't have the MONEY to do this kind of stuff? Bad. Really bad. I'm not blaming ANYTHING on ANYONE here, and I hope she doesn't see this thread. :rolleyes1

I'd really prefer not to get flamed for being jealous.

My life isn't really as peachy as hers. Sure, she lives in an apartment complex, but she says she may move to a house soon. Once again, feel great for her, honestly, but it makes you look at how little you have.

I'm sorry for being really jealous.

I take after my dad in that perspective. Whenever something doesn't go as planned, I get all emotional about it. I'm either mad, sad, or in shock. I don't mean to be like this, and I don't want to be like this :(. It's just the way it is.

Please, for the third time (I think), i'm not looking for flames, just looking to post my opinion. (Sorry for so many flamed things :))

So, boyfriend? No. Best friend for life? YES.

(P.S: I know some may say, "Oh, just don't be friends with her." NEVER. She's helped me through a lot of things, and I don't want us to go back to hating each other (again). Anyways, she knows too much about me; we have way too many secrets ;))
 
never had one so i which i could comment.

but like esroiusly i would KILL to get a guy like that.

i have a few guy friends (and girls, too) that would do that for me. they put up with my emotional moments and have fun with me too.
 
I don't have a boyfriend, but I'd like to write about my best guy friends. They're always there for me whenever I feel down. Sure, they can't exactly suprise me with a nice dinner to my favourite resteraunt, but they've been honest to me, and given me the best advice ever. They've picked me up when I've fallen. (Meant metaphoricaly.) I've been able to open up to these boys more than I can with some of my closest girl friends. They're not perfect, but they're pretty damn close.
 
my boyfriend is deffinately NOT perfect. But he is probably the best boyfriend I have ever had. He is sweet, and nice and caring and a really really good listener. But we never talk and it is soooo hard to see each other. And he can never tell when I am in a bad mood(thats not really his fault, it is most deffinately mine, because I cover up my feelings and emotions really well and ALLL the time), But i think the one thing that bugs me the most is that we never ever talk!!! we are both really busy people but i know he has time, he just doesnt make an effort or something, i dont know. but he is deffinately an amazing guy, and he is the only person that I find can make me genuinly happy and he doesn't even have to try.
 
i didn't do anywhere neer as much as this guy does

if i did do this much shed still hate me worse probly though

(this only makes sense if you read my first "rant" thread)
 
Wow. I wish...

Can I go to Disney now? lol

My dreams come true at disney. They stay at disney.

Wow. Don't break up with that guy. he sounds ah-mazing... wow... i could only wish.
 
This would be a good thread for me... if I had a boyfriend.

But my BBF is PERFECT.

She has the right amount of popularity, grade point average, weight, height, friends, and she has a lot more money then me. She's been asked out at least three times in her life, and i've never been asked out once. She blends in with the popular people, and they love her. God forbid I say hi to one of these demons and they'll bite my head off. Everybody loves this girl. Sometimes (please forgive me) I get very jealous. Like for instance, she's going to Mexico for spring break. Hooray, I feel really happy for her, honestly do! But how does that make you feel when you don't have the MONEY to do this kind of stuff? Bad. Really bad. I'm not blaming ANYTHING on ANYONE here, and I hope she doesn't see this thread. :rolleyes1

I'd really prefer not to get flamed for being jealous.

My life isn't really as peachy as hers. Sure, she lives in an apartment complex, but she says she may move to a house soon. Once again, feel great for her, honestly, but it makes you look at how little you have.

I'm sorry for being really jealous.

I take after my dad in that perspective. Whenever something doesn't go as planned, I get all emotional about it. I'm either mad, sad, or in shock. I don't mean to be like this, and I don't want to be like this :(. It's just the way it is.

Please, for the third time (I think), i'm not looking for flames, just looking to post my opinion. (Sorry for so many flamed things :))

So, boyfriend? No. Best friend for life? YES.

(P.S: I know some may say, "Oh, just don't be friends with her." NEVER. She's helped me through a lot of things, and I don't want us to go back to hating each other (again). Anyways, she knows too much about me; we have way too many secrets ;))

Those things aren't everything.
 
I really hope you are not complaining about how perfect he is because he is one of a few guys out there like that.
 
awww. threads like this make me happy.:grouphug:

mike=perfect.

but he'd disagree with me if he heard me say that.


aww shelby i love hearing about you & mike. you guys are so perfect together :goodvibes

and shelly it's okay to be jealous sometimes. i get jealous of my friends quite often, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

daughter_of_amid_chaos-totally NOT complaining. if anything, i'm boasting :upsidedow hehehe.
 
Oh look, we live in the same province..
Ill just sneak up and take him quietly..:rolleyes1
 
Aww! How sweet! Congrats to you two! :flower3:

My BF isn't quite Stepford material...but he is dang close! lol.

He is SO sweet and he's a real gentleman. He is very caring of others, and most importantly of all, he is a great listener. I am everyone else's listener and they come to me with their problems. Sometimes, I get tired of all the drama going on with my friends and he is always there for me to vent to and he talks me through situations.
He isn't aggresive in our relationship (like a lot of guys I know) which is great. I don't want to rush anything. He used to not care for my taste in music (rock, mostly) and now he has changed his view of it for me and has found he really likes it! YAY! ;)

We really compliment each other....like, I suck at high school math and he's the best in our grade. I am great in English and he cannot spell to save his life! :rotfl:

O...and he has these blue saphire eyes that would make you drool. I ♥ his eyes! They are really unique looking. :cloud9: lol

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I am really you have found someone that perfect! You are REALLY lucky! Hold onto him.

-Sarah
 
aww sarah that's so cute. (your boyfriend's eyes are GOOOORRRGEOUSSS!)
it's great that he listens. :D




I did SUCH a jerk thing last night though and I feel like a toootal jerkface.
I told Derek I'd call him when I got home from work at 11:30, well it slipped my mind and I just went to bed.
I woke up about and hour later and remembered I was supposed to call him,
so I did, and he sounded really worked up and I asked him what was wrong and he said
"I'm in my car, on my way to your house right now. I thought something happened to you and I wanted to make sure you were okay"
And he started to cry. Because his brother lost HIS girlfriend last year in a car accident, and Derek said that's all he could think about and that he thought something bad happened to me.
I feel soooo terrible for making him feel that way!!
I will never forget to call him AGAIN.
I just feel soooo bad and I had to vent that.

I really don't deserve him. :guilty:
 
aww sarah that's so cute. (your boyfriend's eyes are GOOOORRRGEOUSSS!)
it's great that he listens. :D




I did SUCH a jerk thing last night though and I feel like a toootal jerkface.
I told Derek I'd call him when I got home from work at 11:30, well it slipped my mind and I just went to bed.
I woke up about and hour later and remembered I was supposed to call him,
so I did, and he sounded really worked up and I asked him what was wrong and he said
"I'm in my car, on my way to your house right now. I thought something happened to you and I wanted to make sure you were okay"
And he started to cry. Because his brother lost HIS girlfriend last year in a car accident, and Derek said that's all he could think about and that he thought something bad happened to me.
I feel soooo terrible for making him feel that way!!
I will never forget to call him AGAIN.
I just feel soooo bad and I had to vent that.

I really don't deserve him. :guilty:

aww. Don't say that.:hug:
 
aww sarah that's so cute. (your boyfriend's eyes are GOOOORRRGEOUSSS!)
it's great that he listens. :D




I did SUCH a jerk thing last night though and I feel like a toootal jerkface.
I told Derek I'd call him when I got home from work at 11:30, well it slipped my mind and I just went to bed.
I woke up about and hour later and remembered I was supposed to call him,
so I did, and he sounded really worked up and I asked him what was wrong and he said
"I'm in my car, on my way to your house right now. I thought something happened to you and I wanted to make sure you were okay"
And he started to cry. Because his brother lost HIS girlfriend last year in a car accident, and Derek said that's all he could think about and that he thought something bad happened to me.
I feel soooo terrible for making him feel that way!!
I will never forget to call him AGAIN.
I just feel soooo bad and I had to vent that.

I really don't deserve him. :guilty:

omg now im crying seriously i am. Your Bf sounds so nice. do you have a picture?
 


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