Spinoff from another thread that mentioned having a head table at a wedding.
Are head tables common? I haven't seen a head table at a wedding since the 80s. These days it's a sweetheart table for the bride and groom, and the bridal party sits with their spouses, family, etc.
Just curious if it's a regional thing (I'm in NJ), or is that head tables are making a comeback?
I'm past the age of being a bridesmaid, so I don't have to worry about it! Just curious what states people live in that do head tables, and if they ever do sweetheart tables in those regions?
My best friend's wedding 2 years ago had a head table on a stage.... which I promptly knocked over later in the evening
She was 26ish so I imagine it's still pretty common if new/young brides are still doing it.
Most of the restaurant showers here are in separate rooms at the restaurants - mostly Italian, since 9 out of 10 restaurants here are Italian!
Is there a meal, or do they just use the space? As a guy, I don't attend showers (I probably just started another spinoff LOL), but DW says its usually just cake and punch and maybe some other finger foods.
Oh, not here - full sit-down meal, most likely with wine. There really aren't any occassions here that wouldn't call for a full meal, regardless of the time of day.
I find it interesting too! For instance, in my family we always host baby and bridal showers at home. I always thought that was the norm until I got to the age where my friends were getting married and all of the showers were a Italian restaurants. My husband family does the Italian restaurant thing too, yum!
Is there a meal, or do they just use the space? As a guy, I don't attend showers (I probably just started another spinoff LOL), but DW says its usually just cake and punch and maybe some other finger foods.
Any wedding I was at always had a head table. I live in Western PA. Some of our interesting traditions are The Cookie Table and the Shot Dance. Your wedding is judged by your cookie table. Different family members and friends supply cookies for this table and it is usually an elaborate spread. Many people will bring a ziplock bag to fill up. The Shot dance requires you to pay a dollar or other amount and then you drink a shot of booze and dance with the Bride or Groom. I thought these happened at every wedding until I went to some in other states