Well, that was fantastic - a wonderful film , if you enjoyed the first 2 then you will love this.
Quite an emotional roller-coaster really, not just action packed.
The great thing about Spiderman has always been the Peter Parker 'nerd' factor.
Go and see it!
Jakki - it is very violent in many ways, the fight scenes etc, I am not sure whether a 9 year old should go and see it personally.
It's a 12 cert, and kid's will love it - I guess it depends on your child, has your daughter seen either of the first two, if so I wouldn't say it was any worse.
Sorry not a fan of POTC films so cannot really compare.