Does anyone have any idea how much the autograph books are? Id like to purchase one for each kid... I hear there is a book with a place for a signature and a picture to put in there with each character. If they arent outrageous at Disney, I'll just buy them there. But if they ARE, I'm going to start checking ebay.
The plain autograph books (blue cover) costs ~$7. The ones with space for pictures costs ~$11. However, the picture book has very few pages. Some characters will sign really big so you can't have multiple signatures per page. We went through that book in one day!
We found really cute spiral bound autograph books at an Orlando CVS for $3.50. The pages were lightly printed with a background and a princess border. They had tons of different characters available.
Since you'll have a car, definitely check off-site places for souvenirs. The local Target,
Walmart, CVS, Walgreens, etc all carry Disney items like lanyards, autograph books and pens, and other items for less than the parks. However, I do prefer to buy plush toys and clothing at WDW. I used to love shopping at the outlet store, as a previous poster mentioned, for all our souvenirs. We no longer rent a car so we don't go anymore. I'd buy clothing, pins, coloring books and craft things, figurines, watches, toys, and christmas ornaments. My daughter was able to make a charm bracelet for less than half of what they charge at the parks! Now we just add a charm each visit to WDW.
Another budget thing I like to do is to pre-buy any Disney themed snacks at home and bring them... Like HSM raisins, Princess graham crackers, Pooh bear animal crackers, Disney granola/breakfast bars. The snacks can get a little pricey there, so a few weeks before a trip, I just start picking up the extra things at the grocery store a little at a time.
I love the idea of taking pictures of things your kids want and then letting them decide towards the end of the trip on what they want. It works out, since there aren't many items that are store specific any more. If you find something you like at Magic Kingdom, you'll likely find it elsewhere. The only exceptions would be attraction-specific items like Splash Mountain tshirts.
Have you checked out the mousesavers.com website? Lots of great tips! This is my favorite list:
http://www.mousesavers.com/freestuff.html
You asked about meal tips..... go to allears.net, check out their dining page for menus. Estimate how much your meals will cost and then figure 18%.
DDP will automatically charge you 18% gratuity. $20/TS meal might not be enough.
The refill mugs are usually my only souvenir. I use it daily! The mugs are ~$12. The year we bought one for our daughter (4 or 5 at the time), it was a waste! She doesn't drink soda! Check out the beverage dispenser before making the purchase-- different hotels seem to have different beverages available. Your little ones might not drink anything that's available. We almost always got a breakfast QS meal, and you can get two bottled drinks with it! I would get the deluxe breakfast to share with my daughter and give her the extra drink.
Have a great trip!
p.s. One more thing! Be sure to check out the $10 and under store at Downtown Disney. They have a sale section where the items are 4 for $10-- I've purchased bath mits, light up necklaces, school supplies, and teacher gifts from the sale wall. And if they have grab bags (~$7), pick up one or two.. They're fun and have items worth way more than $7. During one trip, that's all we bought as souvenirs for our daughter. We bought one bag per day and she opened one each morning. I squeezed the bags to try to avoid getting duplicate items, but we did seem to receive an iron-on patch in each bag! Items included: pen, photo autograph book, stickers, erasers, notepads, keychain, post-it notes, window decals. I don't remember it all.
Here's a link-- it's easy to walk past, but it's right next to the Pooh store.
http://allears.net/btp/dd_mm.htm