Thanks everybody for this, it’s all very helpful.
We had around $250 a day for the family in mind but may well rethink it.
I’ll have a look at the website for meal costs and work something out!
We want to really enjoy our trip but equally we don’t have an endless pool of pennies so it’s finding a balance
On the more optimistic side, our Aug/Sep trip, we averaged $220 per day on our 9 park days as a family of 2 adults and 3 eight year olds.
We ate what we wanted when we wanted but tried to be realistic about not over ordering and throwing away food.
We did a grocery delivery for breakfast and snacks in the parks. (I included this number when calculating my average to be comprehensive.) We also did coffee at the resort before heading into the park for the day.
In park, we averaged one sit down, one QS, and a snack each day. We would often either have the kids share meals or the adults would share while the kids ordered individuals. With the portion sizes, we simply didn't need everyone to order something at every meal. My kids are also big water drinkers, particularly in hot weather, so the adults would often end up with the fountain beverages included with the kids meals so that we could get our mid-day caffeine hit. We did enjoy a few adult beverages over the course of the trip, but a kid's size Coke Zero plus the unlimited free ice water was generally enough to satisfy.
We would also share snacks because, while a dole whip on a hot day is lovely, we don't each need that large serving. Maybe 2 treats between the five of us would be satisfying but not overfilling.
Like I said, we weren't actively trying to be frugal for this trip. Included in that total are two character meals, drinks at Oga's, and drinks/apps at Space 220 lounge, all definitely on the high end of our range. But, we also paid attention to menus and portion sizes and tended towards places where either the adults or the kids would be good to share meals rather than creating a ton of food waste. This is our norm at home, too. When we eat out, we either split meals or bring back a ton of leftovers. Since we weren't carrying to go containers through parks, splitting meals was our default.