DisneyLoverUSA
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Google "Rachael Ray bad tipper" and read all about it. It's all over the internet.
The going rate now is 20%.. not even 15.... like I said, I got 15% back in 1987... my DD's both have and are servers.. and they average 20%
I'd like to see how much the server got after the filming was done before I form any opinions
Not in my lifetime, and I'm 65 years old. And in Arkansas which has historically been a very poor state so not a lot of big time spenders here.10% was the norm not that many years ago.
Just to clarify, a tip is not mandatory, it is something you leave as a sign you appreciated the service and meal... Why would anyone think it is their business to see how much someone else tipped or didn't?
The going rate now is 20%.. not even 15.... like I said, I got 15% back in 1987... my DD's both have and are servers.. and they average 20%
What Country are you from.. not here in the United States..I see your tag says "Washington".. and that is here
I use to wait tables in a small place to help out a friend of mine when he first opened up.. that was in 1987.. and I was getting 15% then, that was in NY... 24 years ago is many years ago.
Okay... I have a scenario.
If you and your friend go to a restaurant such as the Old Hickory steak house at Gaylord and the entree costs $56 - the kobe beef filet, and you have appetizers and desserts and a glass of wine each and the bill comes to about $250 and you've been there about 1 hour total, do you think that warrants a $50 tip (20%) for two customers for 1 hour for the waiter? And - he's doing 5-6 tables at the same time - not all evening - all evening he may do 15 tables - and tip sharing.
I should add that this was a real situation - real check - I was one of the 2 dining and the food was excellent.
My question then is, why is it that the waitstaff at a place serving $250 meals for 2 people deserve $50/hour just for 1 table and the waitstaff at a chain restaurant only deserves $10 for that same amount of work? It doesn't take more work to bring a plate of $250 food to me than it does to bring $50 food to me. That is the problem of tipping on a percentage. Tips should be a $ amount, not based on the price or overprice of a meal.Yes, on a $250.00 check I would tip $50.00 unless there were any huge mistakes or neglect from the waitstaff, then probably $40.00.
My question then is, why is it that the waitstaff at a place serving $250 meals for 2 people deserve $50/hour just for 1 table and the waitstaff at a chain restaurant only deserves $10 for that same amount of work? It doesn't take more work to bring a plate of $250 food to me than it does to bring $50 food to me. That is the problem of tipping on a percentage. Tips should be a $ amount, not based on the price or overprice of a meal.
My question then is, why is it that the waitstaff at a place serving $250 meals for 2 people deserve $50/hour just for 1 table and the waitstaff at a chain restaurant only deserves $10 for that same amount of work? It doesn't take more work to bring a plate of $250 food to me than it does to bring $50 food to me. That is the problem of tipping on a percentage. Tips should be a $ amount, not based on the price or overprice of a meal.
There is no rule that you can't tip your TGIF server $50.00 on a $100.00 check. I'm sure they would greatly appreciate it.
More formal/expensive/fine dining restaurants do not give their servers 5-6 table stations. Fine dining establishments pride themselves on stellar customer service. Therefore, the servers in truly upper end restaurants tend to wait on less tables at one time, perhaps 2-3. Whereas servers at chain restaurants may wait on average 6 tables at a time. So even though the menu items cost less at chain type restaurants the servers make money by waiting on a larger quantity of tables in one shift. Fine dining servers wait on less tables but generally make more from each table due to tipping on percentages. The theory is that the consumer should be receiving more personalized attention and an overall higher quality of food and service combined and therefore tip based on that.
Furthermore, in many (I know there will be exceptions) instances, servers must tip out and pay taxes according to sales NOT tips.
I think when dining patrons think of their tip as part of their budget for dining out that evening then there is less debate (for lack of a better word) over the proper amount to tip. When patrons view the tip as an extra fee for dining out then they may feel reluctance or even annoyed at having to tip.
Just an add to this.
The waiter visited at least 5-6 tables. One or two may have finished shortly after our arrival. I could see him. Yet the service was excellent.
There was a maitre d', a busboy, a guy for the water and bread, a wine steward, the waiter. The manager stopped by and the chef came out and checked on our table. The place was full. The only thing we didn't get was the view. We had an inside table.