Someone comes up to you...WWYD?

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Someone comes up to you, says hello, starts asking how you are and tries to start a conversation. Obviously this person knows you, but you don't know them.
What do you do? Do you ask them who they are or go along with the converstation?
 
When that happens to me I usually try to just go along with it, but last time it happened I just stood there looking at them like they were crazy. The person finally said "Don't you know who I am?" I said "No" and then they gave me their name and I still didn't know them. Then I gave them mine and I wasn't the person they thought I was. :confused3
 
I usually try to go along with it. I'm a nurse so meet a lot of my ex-patients outside of the hospital. Some look familiar, but some I don't recognize at all. It's amazing how different people look when they're wearing clothes and standing up.
 
That is so funny, Jennifer! Did you both bust out laughing after that?

I go along with the conversation and wrack my brain trying to remember how I know this person (usually the person's name).
 

If it were someone that I thought I knew from somewhere, I'd say, "I'm sorry. I know I recognize you but I'm drawing a blank on your name."

Sadly, this HAS happened to me many times. I have a hard time placing people if they're not where I'm used to seeing them. I've never had anyone get offended--they usually just laugh.
 
NMAmy said:
If it were someone that I thought I knew from somewhere, I'd say, "I'm sorry. I know I recognize you but I'm drawing a blank on your name."

That happened to me once..I racked my brain for the persons name and finally pulled one out of my butt....

and I was right.

still odd though...I hadn't seen this person in over 10 years...no way in heck I look the same now as I did at 18! heheh
 
I spent the morning at school with other K parents making their "farm breakfast." We really had a good time and enjoyed each other's company. When we were all set to leave, one of the other parents said "don't be upset with me if I can't remember your name, I'm terrible with names." I piped up and said that the only way I remember everyone is as someone's mom. We all agreed it was o.k. to call one another "someone's mom."

In the OP's situation, I would have probably gone along with the conversation.

Denae
 
I would say "great to see you, I'm in a bit of a hurry...give me a call sometime". Because who knows if they really know you or if they're some psycho hoping you'll think you know them, but really there to rob you!
 
.... oh yeah, poor old SideshowBob has TERRIBLE memory, so I just start calling them "my friend" a lot. ;)
 
Blondy876 said:
When that happens to me I usually try to just go along with it, but last time it happened I just stood there looking at them like they were crazy. The person finally said "Don't you know who I am?" I said "No" and then they gave me their name and I still didn't know them. Then I gave them mine and I wasn't the person they thought I was. :confused3

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That is too funny!

Usually I try to play along, especially if I think I know who they are and it's on the tip of my tongue. If I really don't know I'll say that I know that I know them, but I forgot their name, etc.
 
I'll actually say, "I'm sorry, I can't remember where I know you from!" DS is in swim lessons and the sessions change every 8 weeks -- usually people who look familiar are the parents of DS's past classmates.

A few weeks ago, though, I ran into a woman I knew at the grocery store. When I saw her later in the checkout line, I admitted that I couldn't remember where we knew each other from and she couldn't remember either! We finally figured out that she had been my quilting teacher last winter. :)
 
This happens to me often, I know I know them from somewhere. They will even ask how the kids are by name. I don't want to be rude and not ask them about theirs but I can't remember if they have any/what gender they have,etc. on occasion, I will ask where I know them from.
 
I'm such a big mouth, it wouldn't matter. I will talk to anyone that wants to talk. Guess I am a regular chatty CAthy. :teeth:
 
I go along with the talker, and I hope I figure out who it is. I have such a huge client load that I cannot remember someone that I might have talked to for 20 minutes and went to court with on one day two years ago. BUT, they remember me. I would never tell someone that I didn't know who they are, because I wouldn't want it to be a client and have them think I didn't care enough to remember them(because I do care about all of them, I just have a hard time matching faces with cases). I just ask the basic questions, how is life, is everything okay with you and your family, etc.. usually they will say something that jogs my memory.
 
I'm sorry..your name isn't coming to me.."it's Sue, don't you remember?" Of course Sue, I remember your first name..I'm trying to recall your last name.
 
I would probably say, "I am so sorry, but I am having a blonde moment. Tell me who you are and then I will remember you." :rotfl:
 


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