Solo Trip... To go or not to go?

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So I saw the 4 + 3/5 + 2 discount... And for the first time I have had the hardest time trying to find a travel companion. Usually my ex goes with me, but he's got some issues and can't go (well pretty much he just went on vacation). So I'm seriously considering a solo trip for the first time in my life. I decided the $300 more it costs isn't that big of a deal.

My question is more along the lines of... are solo trips bad? A lot of people around me support them and a lot of people say I won't have as fun of a time. Now granted I'm extremely outgoing so I'll make friends wherever I go. I guess I'm just looking for input from those who have taken the solo trips!

Thanks a bunch!
 
Anxious to hear input from others as I will be taking my first solo trip for four days next week. Looking forward to it but am wondering what others have to say.
 
Some of our best family memories are doing Disney together.... but I would LOVE a chance to do a solo trip! Do what I want, when I want? I may have a chance in 2012 when DH has a convention in Orlando. Go for it!
 
Some of our best family memories are doing Disney together.... but I would LOVE a chance to do a solo trip! Do what I want, when I want? I may have a chance in 2012 when DH has a convention in Orlando. Go for it!

Well.. the great thing about when my ex goes... is I still do whatever I want whenever I want. He let's me run the show (weird huh?). But I am thinking by myself I could move faster. And I do feel that having someone there to share the memories with is great. But what memories am I missing because I'm not a lone? That is a good question.

My other big question is to stay with my "home" resort (POP) or upgrade the trip to a moderate... (which would raise the price another $200 give or take). But that's a question for another board.
 

I loved mine!

I went in Feb with a few friends, but they had to leave early (and I had a half day before they got there) and I loved the time I had solo.

I am also outgoing...love to people watch...and loved riding whatever I wanted as many times as I wanted! :)

The solo lines are a great perk, too!

It is so much easier to deal with crowds when you can sorta wind through them without worrying if you lost your friends, too.

Eating in Disney is fun as a solo...You can enjoy lots of great Counter Service places. There are several table service places (50's Prime Time) that are fun and they will banter back and forth with you, etc. I also enjoyed Beaches and Cream's bar area (ordered from full menu or ice cream) and you get to watch them make the ice cream (and kitchen sinks!). I also had fun at Biergarten (Teppan Edo would be similar) because you can sit with people you don't know and share a table. :thumbsup2

I don't think people really pay attention to solos in Disney like they would if you went out to eat at home. I think people assume you are with someone that just doesn't happen to be there right then.


I loved going to the MK at night and just sitting around after the fireworks ended.

Just being able to go and do whatever you want. It's nice.

There were moments that I wished someone was with me to share X Y or Z...but for the most part I enjoyed myself...more than I thought I would!
 
I love my solo trips! So go! GO! GO!!!!!!!

You never know how it will be for you until you try it. I was a little worried on my first one but it turned out great and now I do a mix of solo and group trips.

As for Pop or a moderate? I like done both solo but on my next solo trip I'll be staying at Pop Century. I personaly love CSR but sometimes I just don't feel like spending the extra money and Pop Century is great too.
 
Solo trips ROCK! Of course it depends a bit on the person, and whether you enjoy some time alone - but if you do, and are socially capable, you should have a wonderful time. Way back the first time I tried one, I was a little worried it would be odd, or boring. But I loved it so much that I actually schedule 1-2 a year, much to the chagrin of family and friends who actually get angry that I would want to go without them even when they are more than willing to come along. I figure I go with them 3-4 times a year and have a fine and wonderful time, but for 1-2 trips a year, I just want the different vibe that solo provides.

1. I have absolutely no schedule. Totally wing it, wake when I naturally do, wander where I want, spend as much time doing or not doing whatever I want.

2. I can get on rides faster, and ride as often as I feel like...If I want to do Pirates 3 times in a row...I can! No friends or family signing, clucking, or putting their hands on their hips.

3. I meet more people. With friends or family along, even if you are a friendly outgoing person, you spend more time talking with them, or engrossing in your own conversations, and therefore are less prone to talk to others. When solo, you chill on a bench with a drink and someone sits next to you, you can say hi and see if a conversation starts up. You end up meeting very cool people from all over the world.

4. If you have a particular hobby, it frees you up to enjoy it. For me, I love photography, and solo trips let me shoot to my heart's content - even the details, the minutae, the slow set-up tripod shots, etc. Whether it's photography, character meets, pin collecting, searching for hidden mickeys, blogging, whatever - you can do it!

5. More time to relax can put the parks in a whole new light. With the family or group vibe, you do a lot of rushing here, meeting there, walking, walking, walking...standing on lines, getting tired and worn out. It's fun, but it takes a toll and sometimes leaves you with the memory of a particular park being big, hot, and crowded. When solo, you can take the Jimmy Buffett tour of the parks - laid back, walking easy, enjoying the bars or grabbing a snack, taking bench breaks to peoplewatch, throwing the feet up on the wall in the shade and listening to some tunes. You can spend the whole day, morning to close, in the parks and still walk out feeling refreshed and ready for more. Your feet aren't sore, your head isn't pounding, your skin doesn't feel hot, and you still have a smile on your face on the ride home.

6. Enjoy the journey. Soloing lets you take the long way there. Hop other resorts...check out the theming. Heading to the parks? Don't just hop the next bus to the park...try a novel way of getting there in which the journey is half the fun. Maybe you're staying at Port Orleans French Quarter and want to get to Epcot...try this: Take the boat to Marketplace, stroll to the bus stop to catch the bus to Hollywood Studios, then walk over to the boat to Epcot. Need to get to MK? How about boat to Marketplace, bus to Wilderness Lodge, and boat to MK! Take it all in, enjoy the journey, and explore a little.

Just a few suggestions that might make soloing the coolest thing you ever did. ;)
 
GO FOR IT!!! :) Solo trips are the best trips!!! I have about 4 1/2 solo trips under my belt now.... and i love it!! Yes, people at my work think i'm super crazy.... but i always have the best time!! and they have never experienced the Disney Magic!

Single rider line rocks! You can do what you want, when you want! Eat whenever, or don't eat cause your having so much fun! Which is what usually happens to me! My favorite thing to do is see how many times i can ride RNR and EE as many times as i can in a row... (found its about 5 for each ride!)

I usually stay at POP, just because since i'm a solo traveler, i mainly stay at the parks, so i'm never at the resort, and by staying at a value vs a moderate, i can stay longer! Pretty much comes to for 1 night i can stay at POFQ, i can stay 2 nights at POP, so i'm all about staying at WDW as long as i can!! :)

Seriously, you will have a GREAT time! I'm always talking to new people in the lines, and also to CM's.... so technically you are never alone!
 
Definately worth it. I have gone to WDW 25 times, 3 times solo. Now, I miss my travel partner, but still enjoy the trip.

  • No day time breaks when I'm solo.
  • Ride the attractions that my wife does not enjoy.
  • Stay out later than she wants to.
  • Eat at location of my choice.
  • No extra shopping.
  • Lots of people to chat with while waiting in line. Always meet some fun people, and often continue to run into them during the stay.
  • Willing to stay off site and a lesser location for a lesser price.

THE BAD
  • Sometimes an hour or more of no conversation, depending on what/where you are.
  • Nobody personal to share the magic with.
  • I have to make all the decisions.
  • More difficult to get sit down ressies for 1 person.
 
Solo Trips Rock!

I took my first one at the end of April 09 and can't wait to do another.

I got up early every morning and ate what I wanted for breakfast without having to argue with my family to get up or having to eat what they wanted. I stayed out until the parks closed every night which I can't do when the kids are along.

I met some of the nicest people. At the bus stops, in the bar at POR, waiting for my Boma reservation. I even got invited by the family I met at Boma to join them on the Illuminations cruise they won. I wasn't able to go since I was leaving the day of their cruise. Boo Hoo.

I got to eat at places my family wasn't interested in. Boma and Teppan Edo.

I even rode HM 7 times in a row (my family would NEVER have gone for that and it's my fav. ride at MK). I went to Rafiki Planet Watch and wandered down every path I could find at AK.

I took a gazillion pictures. I love to take pictures but normally my family is too impatient to wait for me while I do it and ended up with some fabulous ones like this:

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It was a fantastic vacation and I'm planning on going in Early Dec. 2010 all by myself. :woohoo: I can't wait.
 
I went on a week-long solo trip in march of this year.

I wouldn't say it was "better" than going with others, but "different."

I definitely missed my wife and kids while I was there (on business) but I did have more freedom than normal. I never realized how much time kids' naps take out of a day. :)

I was able to take things at a more relaxed pace.

While I would ALWAYS rather have my family with me - it was a nice experience.
 
I say book the trip! If I really wanted to go and had no one to come with me, I'd go. I've traveled alone before and am comfortable chatting people up. You've gotten lots of great advice and here is mine - your trip will be what you make it. Take your time, relax, enjoy it.
 
Do it! Do it! Do it!:cheer2:

I've never been solo to Disney, but I've been solo to in various places in Europe. I had a great time and am glad I went. Sure, sometimes I wish there was someone to share a meal with...but if I had fun going solo in countries where I didn't even speak the language, I'm sure Disney, with it's friendly, English-speaking CM's will be a blast!

Think about it - no one to confer with on where to go or what to do. No waiting on someone else while, no having to think about where to eat that so-and-so will like....you can do exactly what you want, when you want! And you can use single-rider lines!

Oooh another thing - when your in line for a ride and see that a vehicle has an empty spot, speak up and tell the CM's! They will let you ahead so you can ride!
 
Planning my first solo trip since the death of my DH. I loved Disney to much to give it up so am meeting sister in law for 1 week then getting my feet wet as a solo for another week. Can't wait for these last few days to pass:banana::banana:
 
Book it! Have not traveled solo to Disney, but have traveled solo to other places. It is a much more intense experience. You do not have someone else to buffer sounds, smells, and tastes. Everything just seems intensified. I love the experience.

I have also found that servers are so attentive and kind to the solo traveler. Often they will spend a bit more time chatting with you, and making sure you are comfortable. (Again this was at non-Disney locations.)

You make all your own decisions which is very cool.
 
I am just decided yesterday to do a solo 3 day 2 night trip on Oct 26th because I have 2 days left on my military ticket and an entry for a water park. My DH cannot go as he is in the military and just can't leave work, but I am self employed have not children so why not! I think it will be fun to do what I want, eat what I want, and just have have some me time. I have decided to stay at CSR, I wanted the Poly but $750 for 2 days with no dining plan, no thanks. So I say go for it!
 
I'm all about solo trips. I did my one and only so far in May of 2008. 4 nights. I will not lie - I did have some lonely moments, and I don't think I would like if all my Disney trips were solo, but it was a great trip and I was actually planning on doing it again this November, but a friend ended up being able to join me.

What I liked about the trip was I was doing whatver I wanted. I sort of run the show when I go with my family, but this time I truly did not have to answer to anyone. I could get up super early and hit rope drop, which my family is never able or willing to do. I ate at restaurants that my family doesn't care for. Rode the cheesy rides I like, without grumbling from my travelmates. Walking through the shops and taking my time, even if I don't end up buying anything.

It was one of my most favorite visits to WDW - and I have had many!!!

Here is the link to my (unfinished) trip report from my solo trip, if you're interested:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1815131
 
I just wanna say to everyone who has commented! THANK YOU! I was so excited to go... then found out I have no travel companions and was getting mildly excited to go by myself. Then I got to work and started to feel really sad about it... for a lot of reasons. But you guys have really lifted my spirits!

BillSears: I think I'm going with Pop to save on the money! Amongst other reasons I have inside my head!

zackiedawg: All your input! Amazing! I really needed to read that after the day I had!

OB1: I <3 shopping! ;)

Wonders10: Thank you! I'll read it as my schedule allows me! (Once I start posting my pre-trip you will understand!)

I do really appreciate everyone's input! Today I started to think about what the trip would be like by myself. I talk non-stop. And started to think what would it be like to be in Disney World with no one to talk non-stop with? Well I guess if it turns out that way... I'll be the one on the cell phone the whole time! I won't lie. I prewarned my friends to expect massive amounts of texts from me for my boring times! Will it happen? Who knows! I make friends so easily (my personality has changed greatly in the almost two years since my boyfriend and I broke up).

A lot of you comment on how you can do what you want without moaning and groaning. I wish I could say the same, but my past trip my ex totally let me run the show. Occasionally he'd complain... but I always got my way. And I can see how I could be at the park at rope drop like I always wanted! Of course that's assuming I'm ready in time! ;)

And I do like the idea of being able to eat where I want. With my mom I'd be able to eat where I wanted (as opposed to with my ex) but my mom has her own idea on what time to get to the park. So there are a few places I might like to try seeing how I don't have my ex to hold me back.

Though I have decided I won't be doing any table service meals... I do expect it to be amazing fun.

There are a few things I decided would make my trip better, but we'll have to see how it goes.

I'm not really worried what people think of me being alone... generally I could care less.

I do have a few more questions for those who have traveled.
When you want pics of yourself and senery or a a character... is it a problem? Are you worried about someone running off with your camera (yes I'm uber paranoid)?
I'm also worried about how I'd deal with "rude" visitors... Generally when I'm with a companion I have someone to help defuse me. I'm not saying I explode right away... but I don't talk a lot of stuff from people.. and I don't keep my mouth quiet. What is your guys' experience with it?

In regards to the last question my last trip we had the chance to meet amazing people and families! I really wish I got email addresses or something. And that is something I'm going to try to do this trip... if I have a great connection with the family sitting next to me at the parade (because their adorable son gives us glow bracelets cuz we don't have em) I'm gonna take pics of them and/or us together. These are people I would like to remember for the rest of my life!

Thank you all again!
 
I have had a couple solo trips as extensions of business trips. They were delightful! I met marvelous people....particularly a couple from Great Britain while we waited together for Illuminations. Never felt uncomfortable about answering the "how many" question on rides either. Was a great opportunity to make all the decisions myself and go at my pace! Also a good opportunity to take it slow and use my camera more. Check out the architectural details that I have missed before. Also solo trip was only time I got to rope drop at MK. What fun!
 
I talk non-stop. And started to think what would it be like to be in Disney World with no one to talk non-stop with? Well I guess if it turns out that way... I'll be the one on the cell phone the whole time! I won't lie. I prewarned my friends to expect massive amounts of texts from me for my boring times! Will it happen? Who knows! I make friends so easily (my personality has changed greatly in the almost two years since my boyfriend and I broke up).

Good to have a backup plan so you don't feel like you've got noone to talk to...but I suspect it's not going to be a problem once you get there and see how friendly everyone is and how many people there are to talk to. BTW - a lot of CMs love to have a chat about things too - when I solo, I find a surprising number of them will come up and initiate conversations that end up going on for 10-15 minutes...you wouldn't believe how many guests just take them for granted and don't really talk to them.

Though I have decided I won't be doing any table service meals... I do expect it to be amazing fun.

In case you decide differently, there are some great table service places for solos that I always go to. I have no stigmas about being alone up there - I spend much of my life surrounded by people, so some time without them is nice and nothing to be embarassed about. I get a little tired of counter service all the time, so I prefer to hit some real restaurants while up there. Rainforest Cafe & Raglan Road in Downtown Disney are both great, as they have bar seating that usually has no wait even when crowded...you can eat at the bars. Maya Grill in Coronado Springs has great food, and though you'll have a table, it's usually pretty spread out and almost never has a wait. Jiko in Animal Kingdom Lodge is excellent if you want to treat yourself to a 4-star meal on the high end - they have the 'cooking place' chef bar if you want to eat solo but have others to chat with, in a bar type seating.


When you want pics of yourself and senery or a a character... is it a problem? Are you worried about someone running off with your camera (yes I'm uber paranoid)?

No problems at all! Actually, most of the characters usually have a 'handler' that travels with them, and they will usually offer to take the photo for you, so you don't even have to deal with guests. If you did, Disney is probably the one place in the world I'd never worry about someone running off with a camera. First, most people wouldn't even think about it in such a happy place, and second, Disney has so many cameras and so much security that the person would be lucky to get 50 feet...plus, they're closed in with gates all around the park. It would take a brazen and rather stupid thief to try that!

I'm also worried about how I'd deal with "rude" visitors... Generally when I'm with a companion I have someone to help defuse me. I'm not saying I explode right away... but I don't talk a lot of stuff from people.. and I don't keep my mouth quiet. What is your guys' experience with it?

To be honest, I can't really remember having dealt with rude visitors at Disney very often, if at all. And I think running solo, you're even less likely to run into any. The bigger the pack, the more personalities within, so sometimes conflict involves you even if someone else in your group started it. When solo, it's only you. Be happy, kick back and don't rush, go with the flow, and there's no reason anyone would have a problem with you and no reason anyone should get under your skin.

In regards to the last question my last trip we had the chance to meet amazing people and families! I really wish I got email addresses or something. And that is something I'm going to try to do this trip... if I have a great connection with the family sitting next to me at the parade (because their adorable son gives us glow bracelets cuz we don't have em) I'm gonna take pics of them and/or us together. These are people I would like to remember for the rest of my life!

Good idea! I have met a few people at Disney that I have had communication with afterwards...some from random meetings, some from the Dis, some from other online communities. I think you're going to have a great time!
 


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