Hi all! I'm a long time lurker who's dying to go back to the World... here's my situation.
I just landed a second job, working weekends, with the intent of socking this money aside for a future family trip to WDW. So were I to go on a solo trip, those I care about will be left high and dry or anything.
My birthday is March 28th, and my husband's vacation year at work runs from April to March

I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to take a birthday trip with just the two of us... but his employer is very inflexible and he's out of vacation time. Plus, I'd rather save his vacation time for a two-week vacation later with his girls. Even though he gets three weeks of vacation (not not NOT complaining about that!!) he has chronic debilitating migraine issues that are thankfully covered under FMLA. Therefore, this is where most all of his sick time and any extra vacation days go. So using up that third week of vacation really isn't the best idea for his situation.
The week of my birthday, my stepdaughters are with their mother. I could leave on Monday and return the following Monday morning, and they would be none the wiser. So there would be no hurt feelings on their end. Not buying things for them would be HARD, but if we're going down either this coming August or next August, it's not like they won't be able to pick up things on their own (our plan generally is to give them $10 a day in spending money)
I do worry about my husband feeling left out however. We are very close and pretty much spend most non-working hours together. I know this sounds lame, but it makes both of us happy, so what's the problem? Hmmm?

I feel no need to "get away" from him, nor do I understand the desire to take a separate vacation from him. It's FINE AND DANDY for others, but for me it just feels wrong.
I, like everyone else, recently found out about the Buy Four Get Three Free deal thing. Per the Disney website, I can book a room at Pop Century, with the dining plan AND PLANE TICKETS from my local airport for about $1500. Between the $200 gift card with the package and the $75 one I'd get for my birthday, I'd be set for souvenirs. I would love to stay somewhere nicer, but I know myself and I'll be spending most of my awake hours away from the room. All I need is a shower and a bed, right?
I just can't get over the idea of leaving my husband at home. If he didn't like WDW it would be one thing, but he does... but the siren song of Solo-ing is calling!
I'd really have to scrape some money together to be able to afford this on top of a summer trip... I really want to save all my second job money for a family trip. But I think it could be done (and no, I'm not charging anything, nor am I going to apply for a Disney Visa, but thanks for the ideas)
So, oh brave solo travelers, what would you do if you were me?