Definitely find a Webster person. And if I were in your shoes, I'd find a new OB. Because an OB that doesn't trust him/herself to let a baby figure things out on its own is an OB that is working from fear. I had two midwives and one OB working from fear, and it did NOT end well.
Other countries deal with breech. Trick is, I've learned, is to NOT interfere. Problems happen when OBs and midwives start interfering. I read a book that said with breech, the main work the professional needs to do is get a cup of something and go sit in a corner. Getting involved is what leads to problems.
I also question this OB because he wants to take the baby out before the baby has decided it's time. My kid was over 42 weeks, and he had signs of prematurity. DH was born at 44 weeks (normally, because in '72 things were more sane than now) and he was under 9 pounds. Can you IMAGINE if someone had taken him out 5 weeks before he was ready???? Makes me ill to think about.
So this OB is wanting to go against the March of Dimes and everyone else trying to STOP this trend of taking babies out early, why? Why would he schedule things EARLY? Why not wait until labor starts and then have you come in, even if you want surgery? Why make up a date?
I was unable to stand up for myself, ultimately. Even though I thought I could.
My cousin, however, dealt with a pushy OB and very well. She knew her body and her body could actually work under immense pressure (where my body acted like a gazelle in labor when she hears the roar of a mountain lion...things stopped entirely so I could run away, but no one would let me run away...gazelles at least have a chance of running away), and just kept putting off her OB again and again, excuse after excuse, until she knew her babies were just about there, and then she went in. She had two babies all natural, without even a heplock, in Florida, and that's impressive.
Anyway, this OB is throwing out all sorts of questionable things. He wants to take your baby out early, he doesn't feel comfy with breech (and I know this is normal in America NOWadays...still tells me that the OB is a poor OB who hasn't seen enough births quite yet and wants to get in there and interfere), etc etc....it's never too late to change professionals until the scalpels are being used.
That's what I've learned.
Find a Webster chiro and get some referrals to better OBs/midwives. I wish you all the luck and POWER in the world!!!!!!!!!!