So sad! Just had to share

dianeschlicht

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This isn't really DVC related, but it is a part of what we were when we first joined DVC 12+ years ago. I'll understand if it gets deleted or moved, but I'm so upset about this, I needed to post somewhere.

Today we drove past our old house. Back in the late 70's, Dick and I designed and built a 5000 sq. ft English Tudor style house on 40 acres. We attached a 6 dog kennel to one end, and it was to be our dream home for the rest of our lives. We moved into it on Memorial Day 1980. This was the second house we had designed and built, but the first one where we did ALL the work. We personally poured the footings, built the basement, pounded every nail etc, etc, etc. A lot of very hard work and sweat went into that house over the course of 3 years. It was still not completely finished when we moved in, but it was easier to work on it once we were there. The only part of the construction we did not do ourselves was the stucco and brick work.

Our son was 5 and our daughter 11 when we moved in (the are 34 and 40 now). We saw them both to adulthood in that house. It was their childhood home. It was in the middle of a 40 acre woods, and was going to be a perfect spot for many years of our dog activities.

Fast forward to about 2000 when the county and city decided to re-route the county highway that ran in front of the property. The new route took 30 of the original 40 acres and left us in a little island of woods. In fact, the money they gave us when they first took the property back in 1998 paid for our second OKW contract.

At first it wasn't so bad because we were isolated enough from neighbors etc. Then they purchased the horse farm across the way and built the new high school on the property. That was when we decided it was time to look for something farther out from development, so we also thought it might be a good time to build a log home that we had dreamed about but never expected to build.

We spent 25 wonderful years in that house, and we often drove past the property to "check" on it. The city purchased it from us back in 2002 so they could annex it to the what was left of the original 30 acres they acquired before building the road. They had rented it out for 4 years. This spring we noticed that the mailbox was gone, and that it appeared to be empty. It was hard to know for sure because of the woods etc, so today on our way back home from my dad's house, we decided to drive by and drive up the driveway. Imagine our shock when we arrived to find the driveway full of emergency vehicles and smoke rising from the woods. They were just hauling in the hoses after burning it in a "practice burn". We were devastated (especially Dick). We just stood there in shock when the firemen told us about it. One of them had been the tenant for the past 4 years and he told us how sad his family was today too. They thought it was a great house too. It just hurts so much to see all that hard work and all those wonderful years reduced to a pile of rubble.

I dont' have any pictures of the outside on disk or a computer, and I haven't located any to scan just yet, but here is what it looked like today after the firemen left and the smoldering embers were left.
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And this is what the fire did to the copper pipes left in the house...It just melted them around the beams in the basement.
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I'm so sorry. I know how attached we are to our house of 6 years, so I can only imagine how you feel. Just remember it's about the memories that you and your family made there, not the structure itself.
 
I'm so sorry. I know how attached we are to our house of 6 years, so I can only imagine how you feel. Just remember it's about the memories that you and your family made there, not the structure itself.

True, but so much of our many hours of work to build it just makes it more a part of us than most houses are to most people. It's going to take a long time to get over how we feel about this.
 
What rotten luck to arrive just as they were doing it. What a horrible thing to have to have seen. Not much else I can think of to say.

Kirsten
 

That is so sad and I'm so sorry. Perhaps thinking of this way may help a little. What was done to your house will save many other houses and the families who live in them.
 
Oh my goodness, how sad for you all! Your pictures say it all. I had a similiar feeling when seeing the lovely garden my husband and I were married in in New Orleans look destroyed. May your memories stay strong!!:grouphug:
 
:hug: I am so sorry. I can relate to your story in two ways. We have also built our current home and the one before. We did it all from having the plans drawn to laying the tile. I can only imagine how heartbroken you are.

DH is a firefighter and they do "practice burns" quite often. During the last one it occurred to him that just because the house was "vacant" didn't mean it was empty. Training is a necessary evil as we need our firefighters to be well trained and safe but just so you know, they know that someone lived there and still possibly cares about the house. :goodvibes I hope that provides some small level of comfort. :flower3:
 
Condolences, Diane. Just the fact that you made the decision to drive by the house shows you still are attached. We have never been able to afford to build a new home. I can only imagine the emotional attachment when you have put blood, sweat and tears into it. We have lived in our house for 36 years and can't afford to move but even if we could I know it would be very hard to leave--and we didn't even buy it new. I know that people on the news who lose their homes to disaster often remark that the home and possessions are "just things" but I can't imagine not feeling like of part of me was gone. Another tough bump on the road of life. So sorry.
 
True, but so much of our many hours of work to build it just makes it more a part of us than most houses are to most people. It's going to take a long time to get over how we feel about this.

I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how you feel and in no way was trying to minimize the loss. A home is more than just a place to live in, and and is even more so when you have such a investment in the planning and building of the structure.

We live in an old bungalow that many families have lived in before us. We love it. We always planned to put on an addition so that our growing family can live there for many years to come. Unfortunately, with the economy, loss of equity, and the current bank financing restrictions with construction loans it probably won't happen. We are heartbroken to think that we will have to move instead of staying here until our children are grown like we had planned. It makes me sick to think of selling, but it is likely what we will have to do since we are outgrowing it. I understand what a house means to a family and I'm sorry you had to watch yours be used in that manner.
 
Sorry for your loss and sorry you had to be there to see all your hard work disappear.

I hope that all the firefighters learned something to help them save others in the future.
 
I know how you feel.

My dad built an "A" frame on the lake when we were kids. (The same way you did, by hand, no help! My brother and I hammered nails and held a lot of ladders over the years!) TONS of great memories there. When I heard it burned to the ground I was very :( Just like loosing a part of your life!
 
Oh, that is sad. :o( I'm sorry.

In February 2004, my parents sold the house I grew up in-which was also the house my mom grew up in. My grandma and grandpa built the house themselves in the 1940s and my mom lived there since she was 5 years old.
In April of 2004 my mom got sick and in June she died.
Within a year the house was knocked down-nothing is built upon the land(the town bought it and designated it as open space).

It's only a couple of miles from where I live now and it took me years before I could drive by because it upset me so much-I felt like the selling of the house started that bad streak, even though I know that it;s not true.

But now I am kind of glad that no one else will ever live in that house, that it was only my family's and the only memories made there are our memories.

:hug:to you
 
Wow, that is just so very sad. I can imagine you must be heartsick. Every once in a while I still drive by our old house, that we moved out of a few years ago, and wonder what "my" house looks like now, or what they changed. We had that house built for us, so we didn't do it ourselves or live there nearly as long. I can imagine how sad you must feel. So sorry... :sad1:
 
This story is a heartbreaker. It seems a wast of a very well built house.

I understand the training aspect, but I can only imagine how many families would have loved having that house for a home.
 
I feel so very bad for you Diane. I can only imagine how heartbroken you must feel. That emotional attachment you have can be so strong that you will no doubt mourn that house forever. As someone previously said you have your memories and those will have to get you through. My good thoughts and prayers to you both as you set to heal this heartache. :hug:
 
In about 1953 my father built the home that we grew up in, like you, by hand and a few good friends who knew the trades. About 1999, he and my mother moved down to Texas to be closer to the rest of the family and for health reasons and sold their house. I don't even want to go back to my home town in IL because I just don't want to see what a stranger did to my home.

But to do a practice burn! That's just outrageous. I'm so sorry. The fireplace looked like it was wonderful.
 
I travel to the Minneapolis area quite often (use MSP as our airport). We frequent Twins, Vikings, Canterbury Park, MOA, and many other great places. It seems as if the last 2-3 years that no matter what route I take there is TONS of construction there. It seems as though they have been working on the I-35/494 interchange for YEARS!

I am sorry about your house/acreage! It sucks when you have to witness stuff like that. But, if that fire happened 10-20 years earlier, and it wasn't a practice run...what could have been...

Sounds like you have many great memories in life, cherish those! For all material things are replaceable.
 
Wow... If it were me I'm not sure if I would be sad or mad.
Either way, I'm sorry this happened..

MG
 












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