hey cs2sgrl! welcome and congratulations!
I second to everything everyone else has said, get Andrea's book, it is a very valuable asset. And do tell your SM everything you want in a wedding, they are a HUGE help.
My advice, if you haven't already done it, start a file of ideas for things you like, everything you like! I had already started a file when I was much younger, ya know the bride we all want to be someday! and when I met my fiance and we started to plan, we continued to grab pics from the web, out of magazines, got paint samples for the colors we wanted, jotted down ideas from other wedding we attended, and so on. We organized it all into folders and when we went down to do our first planning session they could not believe how organized we were. BUT, they said they wished everyone came that prepared!
It really helps to be that organized, especially when it is not local and you can't just run over. Good luck!