From some posts I've been reading regarding early FP+ selections...It seems that Disney "opens" a certain amount of FP+ for early bookings, but then releases more the night before or day of. I've read on the boards where many people were able to get their FP+ selections the night before or the morning of.
For instance, I have AP - actually just the voucher now but it is linked to
MDE. We're staying onsite but no going until Aug. For the fun of it, I went online to MDE this morning around 8:45 and I was able to choose FP+ selections for today for TSM, Star Tours and Little Mermaid. I had three options to choose from - one had early morning TSM FP, another had Later afternoon TSM FP and the third had early evening TSM FP. From what I gather this is a very busy week at WDW and I was still able to get TSM FP+ day of. Of course I didn't book them and just cancelled.
I am assuming FP+ like Elsa & Anna will always be difficult to get because it is still so new and very popular even if you try 60 days out.
I totally understand and agree with your frustration. APs are a big expense and you should be able to choose FP+ sooner
or get your magic bands before your first trip. But there is still hope you will get the FP+ you want.
I may be wrong, but I think as time progresses the FP+ system will evolve and change to accommodate some of these early problems/issues. In the meantime I can see how it can be annoying. I hope you're able to get the FPs you want as you get closer to your trip.