Sleeping arangments

[Error_kitten]

Ok so Im working on booking our hotel, and im trying to decide wether or not we should stay together prior to the wedding.
We get in on Mon, Wedding is on Weds. I plan on having my MOH and BM's to stay with me the night before the wedding.
But what about monday night...
We plan on going out and partying with friends that night do you guys think we should just stay in seperate rooms before the wedding?
Were only going to be staying still sunday.
So a total of 6 nights.
Should I spend 2 away from him?

 

[Fantasia Sam]

I think it's really a personal choice.

Paul and I agreed to spend the night together before the wedding after all we were already living together and I wanted to wake up with him on our wedding day together. Then I kicked him out of the room at 7am LOL

It was also fun staying together because it meant that we could talk about that respecitve night's events and compare notes etc and it's a nice way to fall asleep - I found it very calming. But like I say it's a personal choice.

 

[Cinderella Fan]

BG and I are spending our nights together before the wedding. We have lived together for almost 5 years, so like Samantha said, I can't imagine not staying with his at night. I find him to be very calm, which helps me stay calm (sometimes.... ). He will be getting ready with his BM and his Dad in another room, though.

But, it is your personal choice. Whatever is best for you and him.

 

[disneybridetobe]

I agree with the other girls. I wouldn't be able to sleep without DF in the room. We live together already, and I want to share the whole experience with him. He's not just my DF, he's my best friend, too!

 

[JandJ]

This is a personal choice, it's totally up to how you feel. I didn't want to see DH at all before the ceremony, he didn't care either way but wanted to do what made me happy. So, we said good-night after the rehearsal dinner and I didn't see him again until I walked out onto Sunrise Terrace at WL (we did talk by phone a couple times). MOH stayed in the room with me the night before the wedding. I had moved in with DH a few months before the wedding because I got a new job and my lease was up, but I didn't need him next to me to sleep - I think it would have made me more nervous!

I wanted to be kind of "old fashioned" and I left to stay with my daddy 4 days before the wedding. It was nice to "go home" for a few days before I became a Mrs. I also wanted to see some old friends, go to a day spa, and my wedding gown was in a shop where daddy lived so I had to go up there to pick it up. So, DH and I didn't sleep in the same room (much less anything else ) for 4 nights before our wedding. I think it made the wedding night that much more special

 

[Error_kitten]

Yeah weve been living together since March so I can live a night without him.
Were actualy Ummmm "holding out" for a month before the wedding. I want our wedding night to have a little more somthing special to it...
Ugh I think we'll stay in seperate rooms. I dunno
I'm so bad at making decissions Lol

 

[Cinderella_68]

We booked a couple of nights at POR, 1)so that he won't be around while I'm trying to get ready...I don't want to see him until the Pavilion, so I can knock his socks off! and 2) because we've always wanted to stay there. So the night before, he and our son will be staying at POR while the "girls" and I are at the Polynesian. Then the next night we'll get to ourselves at POR before returning for our familymoon. If we really like it, we may try to add another night...we'll see...

 

[JJClemson]

I am going to be old-fashioned. DF and I are moving in together in January b/c we are both relocating to Atlanta, and I think it would be silly (not to mention expensive) to sign a 6 month lease alone. Starting in the middle of May, I am going to stay at my parents' house in NJ for 6 weeks before the wedding (I will have just completed grad school so I do not have to start my real job until after the wedding). We are going to be at WDW for 4 nights before the wedding. I will be staying in a 2 bedroom villa in one room w/ my BMs and my parents will be in the other room. I could not imagine the nights before my wedding any other way. That way my wedding night will be extra special b/c it will be the first night I will spend w/ DF in over 6 weeks

 

[hmgolden]

I agree with the other girls that it is a personal choice. DH and I stayed apart the nights leading up to the wedding (my parents were using their DVC points for the rooms at that point and my mom insisted on that tradition). FWIW, I wish we had stayed together. I missed him!

 

[Fire14]

Will there be others he could stay with mon night? If it's just 2 of you for mon night I can't see spending bucks to be apart for 1 night, but if there are friends he could room with I'd do it. I personally left my DF on Tues morn and didn't see again until fri am(day of wedding). the time alone gave me some girlfriend time and a chance to do girly stuff for wedding like get nails done, pick up dress etc. I also felt it gave him some male time to do stupid male type stuff. I also think it made the wedding night extra nice even though all we did was sleep.

 

[Error_kitten]

Will there be others he could stay with mon night? If it's just 2 of you for mon night I can't see spending bucks to be apart for 1 night, but if there are friends he could room with I'd do it. I personally left my DF on Tues morn and didn't see again until fri am(day of wedding). the time alone gave me some girlfriend time and a chance to do girly stuff for wedding like get nails done, pick up dress etc. I also felt it gave him some male time to do stupid male type stuff. I also think it made the wedding night extra nice even though all we did was sleep.

Hah But see I like to do the stupid male type stuff.
Thats why we get along so well!
Hehehe.

 

[disneybridetobe]

Hah But see I like to do the stupid male type stuff.
Thats why we get along so well!
Hehehe.

Me too!! Thats how I feel!!

I can not imagine spending Disney time away from DF!!

 

[Gradar1]

We plan on spending the night before apart as well--but go with what you want! We just prefer the traditional way of things, even though we've been living together for what seems like forever. I want to be a surprise for him on the day, and to be honest, I think it'll be a lot of fun to spend the night before goofing off with my little sisters--I miss them so much, as I don't live at home anymore (one of my sisters is 9, and I'm missing her growing up!). But anyways....if you and your DF want to spend the night together, do it! There's nothing wrong with it at all--it's your choice--after all, you are the bride!

 

[Fire14]

Hah But see I like to do the stupid male type stuff.
Thats why we get along so well!
Hehehe.

I love doing male things to but there is still a bit of princess in me plus I was married in my home town not a Disney.

 

[feline figaro]

We will Definatly be sleeping together the night before our wedding, i couldn't imagine not being curled up in bed together & i think being a part would only make me more nervous.

We are planning on having the Mk shoot at the start of our wedding day so we will be seeing each other before the ceremony. Ok its suppose to be "bad luck" but we ve had soo much bad luck happen to us in the 8 years we ve been together that we thought "what the hell". Besides it ll be a great way to kick start our Big Day

 

[jojoandhb]

We'll sleep apart. He'll be in his brother's room, and the girls will be in my room. I like the whole idea of him not seeing me in the dress prior. Plus, he snores, and I'll get one good nights sleep!!