Absolutely! This is going to be like when someone on here a few years ago went on determined to "prove" that Carnival was better and had some shots of slight rust on the Magic or Wonder that only could have been gotten by crawling around on the deck and looking under everything because they wanted so badly to prove Disney wasn't as good. (They'd been on Carnival's newest before.) When nothing was obvious - or anything obvious wasn't being worked on or fixed promptly, they clearly resorted to other ways. Oh, they denied crawling around on the deck, but how else will you see underneath benches?
If you go in with the attitude that it's going to be awful, it's going to be awful. This sounds like a family trip that the OP should sit out so the family can enjoy it.