I guess that's an age thing, when you hit a certain age you realize that having to shift all the time is a real pain.
Part of it may be age.... but a large part of it is boredom. As in, I discovered years ago that when I drive a stick I tend to be MUCH more alert when driving and aware of not only my surroundings, but how fast I'm going, the road, the car, etc..
With an automatic it's too easy to fall into a routine where you zone out, where with a manual it's not really possible.
And as someone who can have a lead foot (Honestly, PA roads have done more to slow my *** down than anything else in my life. Between the 2 lane interstates w/ blind ramps onto the highway and no merge lane, and the general crappy road conditions, It's just not safe to drive fast), it's much too easy to get up to fast speeds in an auto without realizing it. With A manual you always have an idea how fast you are going thanks to knowing exactly which gear you are in.
....and there is just something nice about the tactile feedback in a actual stick instead of an autostick or paddle setup.
But........ admittedly... I don't deal with a lot of stop and go traffic on my daily commute. While I don't mind stop and go traffic much with a stick (I'm from Atlanta afterall... so I'm used to it), I will admit that an automatic can be a HUGE advantage in that kind of traffic.
one of the guys in my car club races his 300M he hooked a laptop up to his car, to see what the optimum shift points are,,, when you put it in autostick, the computer will actually shift at the critical point if you don't to prevent tranny damage..the computer is so precise that you can't manually shift better than the computer does in automatic
the other awesome thing about the Modern Hemis is the multi displacement engines, nothing like shutting off cylinders at highway cruising speed to conserve gas
There are other cars with the variable displacement tech. Who knows... if I get an M3, I think they have the same thing.
dammit.... now I want a new(er) car now. I don't want to have to wait....

you know... I wonder if I'm just an addict. Now that my Disney trip has passed, I'm not eager to spend money on it anymore.... so I'm finding myself wanting to spend the money on another big ticket item. maybe as I get closer to my next Florida trip this urge will go back to the Disney target.