Darsa
<font color=deeppink>Has an active imagination<br>
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Ugh, the stress is going to kill me, I just know it. :crazy2
My 13YO daughter's nurse called today while I was at work; DD came down to see her while she was at gym (which she loves). She complained of shortness of breath and pain when she was running around. Nurse checked her lungs and her oxygen levels, which were both excellent. I talked to her when she got home, and she said she's had this pain for some time, but she didn't want to concern me with it. She's had no fever, no congestion, no other pains at all. She exercises regularly and eats well (for a teenager, heh)
The real issue here is that I **REALLY** want to take her to the doctor for a thorough checkup, which wouldn't have been a problem before March. Unfortunately my husband was let go from his work at the end of February, and COBRA would have taken my whole paycheck and left us with nothing (considering we're awaiting an appeal of his unemployment denial). As it is right now we're living on a shoestring, and there is NO way I'd be able to finance a trip to the doctor without insurance.
I just don't know what to do, other than waiting for something bad to happen and take her to the hospital, and make payments. I'm at a total loss, and it kills me for my daughter to be in pain. I've looked into state-run insurances, and apparently we make too much money to be eligible for that....
UGH!! Okay, I'm done; this was more a vent than anything, if you lasted this long thanks for listening!
My 13YO daughter's nurse called today while I was at work; DD came down to see her while she was at gym (which she loves). She complained of shortness of breath and pain when she was running around. Nurse checked her lungs and her oxygen levels, which were both excellent. I talked to her when she got home, and she said she's had this pain for some time, but she didn't want to concern me with it. She's had no fever, no congestion, no other pains at all. She exercises regularly and eats well (for a teenager, heh)
The real issue here is that I **REALLY** want to take her to the doctor for a thorough checkup, which wouldn't have been a problem before March. Unfortunately my husband was let go from his work at the end of February, and COBRA would have taken my whole paycheck and left us with nothing (considering we're awaiting an appeal of his unemployment denial). As it is right now we're living on a shoestring, and there is NO way I'd be able to finance a trip to the doctor without insurance.

I just don't know what to do, other than waiting for something bad to happen and take her to the hospital, and make payments. I'm at a total loss, and it kills me for my daughter to be in pain. I've looked into state-run insurances, and apparently we make too much money to be eligible for that....

UGH!! Okay, I'm done; this was more a vent than anything, if you lasted this long thanks for listening!


