For two of our last three trips we did the dining plan and absolutely loved it!!!! This past trip, we didn't do the plan as it was a semi-spur of the moment trip and I didn't really have time to plan my ADRs. We had a good time but we were soooooo tired of eating quick service meals.
I understand that you guys will probably be spending a day or two offsite but keep in mind that you can combine the "unused" table service credits and see one of the Disney dinner shows which are definitely worth the two credits.
You could also use the "unused" counter service meals and eat a couple of breakfasts with those credits.
We aren't breakfast people so we skip breakfast, use our counter service credits for lunch and our table service credits for dinner. Snacks are used for purchasing ice cream, water, etc. for a mid-day snack.
I suggest you head over to
www.allearsnet.com and check out the menus. Just click on Dining and scroll down to Menus. Click on Menus and up pops the menus for every Disney restaurant.
Once you have the menus in front of you, make a chart. The chart should have columns for each day of your stay. Using the menus, write down your food choices and their price. Do this for every day. Remember that almost anything under $4.00 is considered a snack credit. I would suggest you use your table service credits for dinner as you get the "most bang for your buck" that way.
Also, keep in mind that it doesn't matter when you use your dining credits just so long as you use them prior to your departure. So, on the days you aren't at Disney, save those credits for a breakfast, extra snack, dinner show, etc.
After you have it all written down, tally up your daily totals to see if the dining plan would be worth it for you guys.
We aren't park commandos but we do like to have a plan. So, I plan all of our ADRs for the park we are in for that particular day. On our "down days" (non park days), I save those credits for our dinner show day.
We have found that, by evening, we are ready for a nice sit down meal. I make our ADRs for 7:00 p.m. or a little later. Table service meals take about 1 to 1 1/2 hours meaning we still have time for the meal AND the night time entertainment.
You may find that the plan would actually work for you.