We haven't been to WDW in several years due to saving for and buying a house and then pooling our money and time off for the
DCL panama canal cruise last year, although we used to go very frequently before (several times a year), and I have to say, I'm not entirely sure what all of the hoopla is about. We are DVC members and are doing DDP for the first time because it really fits the way we tended to eat at wdw, where we did a table service a day and then tended to fill in with snacks and CS.
Anyway in checking out the menus, it doesn't seem like things have substantially changed in the last several years. Of course, we never did something like a lobster add on or ever really paid disney prices for something like lobster PERIOD... for as long as I can remember, the prices on things like lobster were utterly ridiculous.
I was pleased to see that a lot of old favorites are still on the menu, like the mushroom filet at Le Cellier (a favorite of ours before it was considered a great value on DDP). I was a little disappointed to see that some old favorite options are gone, like the ability to have a more grownup lunch or dinner at cinderella's castle without the character hoopla, but I understand why they did what they did (remembering the insanity of getting the breakfast there).
I'm reading dining reviews and people still seem to like their food. I've seen some complaints about portion sizes but frankly I always thought the portions were a bit on the large side at many places to begin with and have never really seen a correlation between high disney prices and sheer quantity of food. To me you're paying high disney prices for location and we've always thought much of the disney food is high quality. Restaurants are crowded? I have to tell you that we've seen people turned away from le cellier for YEARS if they don't have a reservation in advance. After reading these boards I was panicking about getting reservations anywhere that I wanted but it turned out to not be a problem and even subsequent tweaks inside the 180 day period have been no problem.
I guess maybe because I haven't been following all along and keeping tally of incremental changes (things like "oh, this lobster is gone" or "oh, you used to get 3 cubes of beef and now you get two") but honestly things don't look all that different than 3-5 years ago from where I'm sitting. I guess we'll find out when we go, but I'm looking forward to trying the dungeness crab california roll appetizer at california grill that I never tried because I balked at the price of it and that hasn't changed, I am still balking at the price of it but the fixed price of the DDP makes it a non-issue.
We are planning to go next year during the food and wine festival and won't be using DDP because I think it will be incompatible with the way we will be eating (not enough snack credits

). Even if we weren't doing the dining plan this year I still don't see a big problem looking at the menus. DH and I always left food on our plates OR ate ourselves sick (generally only once on vacation!) so I'd welcome the smaller portions and ability to taste a few more things (like get to an appetizer and dessert). If we weren't on DDP we'd be buying the DDE card, something we always wished we could buy when we were frequent visitors.
I guess I just don't see what the angst is all about.