I'm sorry to hear about your experience Peasy (my 57 Friend!). I had a similar experience on Saturday with Lily's Tron Trades. I got dc 2 times while waiting in Q for about 20 minutes each. On my third attempt, after about 25 minutes I made it to the room, took a couple steps towards the water slide line start and got dc.
On my fourth attempt I made it into the room again (~25 minutes), got on the water slide line. It was great! I was chatting with people, having a good ol' time in my inner tube. I made it to trade with Lily and I asked to trade for a Master Gracie pin (I have none of the Mansion pins, but I liked this one and already had a lightcycle pin). She put it into the trade window along with a special gift - a Stack of Presents. Now I think I know what you were offerred and I would have lost my head over that too as I really want that (again, if what I suspect is true), but I was thrilled over the presents also! I was thanking her and she has already clicked approval. I did too. The second verification window popped up and I clicked the ok to approve - And Pow! dc!
I was struck dumb!
I attempted to log back into VMK, but it crashed. I tried again and got in. I went into a room and checked my inventory. I still had my old pin and didn't have the new pin or presents. By this point it was like 3:20p and the event was due to end at 3:30p. I tried to get back into Q and made it! I even got into the room again! I got on the slide line again! I announced to Lily that I was back to finish trade. I made it all the way up to the end of the line - I was next to trade! Pow! dc again!
I was pulling out my hair with saddness, frustration and anger.
I got back into game and found the room gone. I was so distraught.
I know this is supposed to be a game and I shouldn't let it get to me, but sheesh, I had wasted 2 hours of my life to get this virtual trade and nada. I went to a room and shouted out calling on the Hosts, Staff, Lily, etc. No response. I sent a message via Contact Us and the Help button. No response.
Fortunately, my story has a (mixed) happy ending. I got into Lily's room Sunday morning. I asked if she remembered me from Saturday, she said she did and even though it wasn't a trading room she immediately initiated a trade with me. In that window she said: "I wondered why I still had presents left - what was the pin again?" I told her and we completed the trade.
Of course I was happy.

I hung out a while and Lily said we would all play Trivia for a prize. I was the first to answer but before I got my prize I was dc.

I made it back in the room, only now Hula was there, she was having dc problems of her own, and I didn't think she would know about the Trivia game anyway so I didn't bring it up. I plan to ask Lily about it later.
Hula ended up doing a teleporter game and I was one of the winners (got a lightcycle pin). So that was cool. But I was hoping for a Lily Trivia prize as I have heard she's giving out something very nice (the thing you lost I think).
Ah well... It's a long way to go to say that I have felt your pain, and to remind that it'll work out I'm sure!
