I was working as a
travel agent when the events of 9/11 happened. I remember sitting at the corner of Coliseum Blvd and Stellhorn Rd in Ft Wayne when I heard the news of the first plane. The second plane had hit about the time I got to work. We all huddled around our little tv watching the events unfold in horror. And what still amazed me were the folks who came into our office still wanting to plan their trips as if nothing had happpened. Our faces were tear-streaked...make-up was shot to hell...and these folks wanted to plan out some trivial vacation. I remember wanting to scream "don't you watch tv!! don't you know what's happening right now???" That was one day that I absolutely HATED a job that I normally loved.
9/11 was a day that changed my life forever. In the days that followed 9/11, I made some pretty tough decisions. One thing that day taught me was that life is way, way to precious and short to live in a situation that makes you unhappy. I had just returned the previous day from a trip to Anaheim. I had spent the weekend with an old friend...he was my first thought when I heard the news. I called him and apologized for waking him as it was VERY early in California at the time. I told him to turn on the tv and I told him that I loved him. My heart broke because he wasn't able to hold me and calm my fears. I knew right then and there that he and I were meant to be together. I made the decision to leave the life I was living and be with him. I've never once looked back. We were married one year later and have been blissfully happy ever since! We both know how precious life is and we don't take anything for granted. We don't fight and bicker. We choose our battles carefully. After what it took for us to be together, the trivial arguments just aren't worth it.
I will never forget those who fell on 9/11/01. Their sacrifices gave me the life that I have today.