Laugh O. Grams said:It's too bad that your family members feel this way, as it would certainly releive your heirs of any undue tax burden. I would think that someone would have to be pretty presumpuous, not to mention, straight up disrespectful, to think that way.
Plus, I figure, she gets to actually see her family enjoying their inheritance...I love the idea!
One of the biggest drawbacks for giving money yearly is that I have two (1 neice&1nephew) who still live at home, do not work, and are 23 and 27. They have never had to work or go out and make a living for themselves, so my dh and I do not want to feed into their behavior.
Heck, we told one of the other neices that we would pay for her college for 4 years but she had to get the grades each year for the tuition to be continued. Well she called and asked if she could just have the money instead because she wanted to go out to Colorado and snowboard for a year. Now she is 26 with a beautiful little girl and we have just offered once again to put her through college (in state) but has not gotten back to us, as of yet.
I love all of my neices, nephews and grandneice and would do anything to help them but there comes a time that they have to help themselves and take advantage of what is being offered.
I still haven't heard of a viable reason why the government deserves to collect estate taxes so they can spend the money on what they want with no regard to people who actually went out and earned it.
