kittythepoohbear
Mouseketeer
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- Jun 20, 2005
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About 2 weeks before our trip, my 18 y.o. sister sprained her ankle so badly she required a walking cast and physical therapy. The trip was almost called off, but the doctor said she was doing well so off to WDW we went. For the first two days my little sis walked her buns off, stopping to rest frequently. By our third day she was in such pain I rented a wheelchair for her. I can't tell you how bad we both felt about this decision for a couple of reasons. First, my sis is overweight largely due to medication she needs to take. This of course compounds the ankle injury, but we both did not want others to see this young girl in a WC and think "Oh, there is another lazy fat person using a wheelchair." She is very sensitive about her weight issue and almost broke down in tears at EPCOT over the whole situation. She saw a lot of overweight people is EVCs and asked me "I am not like that, am I? I don't want to be a fat kid in a wheelchair, it just really hurts to walk." Secondly, by this time she didn't have to wear a walking cast although she did use an ace bandage under her clothing. Her injury was not apparent making the whole thing that much worse. She was able to transfer out of the wheelchair fairly easily and could walk, but those who stared could not feel the pain in her ankle or in her heart as she felt ashamed. I felt ashamed as well, not just for her, but when I realized others may judge me and think I am enabling this "fat kid" to sit on her butt instead of walking. I hate myself for even letting that thought cross my mind, but it did. I am not really even sure of my point in sharing this. I just want others to know that if you see a "fat kid" in a WC or ECV, there may be something else going on that you can't see. My sister is a beautiful, fun-loving girl who works hard and is looking forward to college in the fall. She just happens to wear a size 18 and had a bad injury at WDW. I hope she never needs to use a WC again, but my understanding of those that do need one has increased. My prayers to those of you on this board who need to use one on a regular basis and to those who, heaven forbid, may need to use one in the future.