It seems like I'm spending more then I'm earning right now
I'm going to focus in on just this one sentence:
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You say it "seems like"you're spending more. You need to start keeping records so you'll KNOW just where you stand. Right now you're not satisfied, but you're uncertain about just how bad it is, where the money is going, or something along those lines.
Start keeping records of where you spend, and you'll figure out where your money is going. Perhaps you're spending too much on eating out, perhaps you're splurging too much on clothes, perhaps you're driving a car that's a little too expensive for your salary, perhaps you're spending too much on entertainment on weekends. Right now you don't know -- so keep records for a few weeks, and look for patterns.
Or, you might find that overall you're fine, but this is an expensive time of year for you. It is for me. Between end-of-the-year school expenses, summer camp expenses, just having added a new 16-year old driver to our insurance, and everyone in our family having a spring birthday, I'm spending tons right now! But that's not a problem because I don't spend this way year-round. I just know from experience that this happens every May, and I'm ready for it.
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You say you're spending more than you earn. To save money, obviously, you must spend LESS than you bring home. You need to set a budget for yourself -- a realistic budget, which you can keep -- that will allow you to live on less than you're earning. Take at least 10% off the top of your earnings towards short-term savings (vacation, new furniture) and 10% for long-term savings (retirement, college savings) and then make a plan to live within the amount that's left.