First, I totally disagree that we are talking about 5th graders ever taking this test, unless you have some information I don't know about.
Second, my seventh grader has taken standardized tests every year since she was in the 3rd grade, and she has never shared her scores while she was in middle school. Neither daughter ever has. Our school encourages parents to keep this information private, so I never shared the scores with my daughter. Obviously, she knew she'd gotten a 95% in one area to be invited to take the SAT, but so did every other child who took them.
When SAT scores came out, none of the kids had any experience with what the numbers meant, and again, I didn't share the score with her until we had a talk about keeping the number private. I said, "You did really well for your age, but not well enough to be able to skip 8th grade and high school and go right to college." She laughed and said she was glad, and that was that.
If I asked my 13 year old daughter what her friends who took the SAT last year made, she wouldn't have any idea.
I think 7th grade is plenty old enough to start figuring out that some kids are smarter than you and some aren't. There are all sorts of rankings, and I think most kids by that age have figured out where they are in the lineup. To me it's no different than an Honor Roll or Headmaster's List - if you fall on one side of the numbers, you're on it - if you fall on the other side, you're not. Elementary school is too young for that, but the middle of middle school? I think it's perfectly reasonable for the ones who are bright enough to qualify to have the chance to see how they do. I don't think any parent in our school has ever had any regrets about letting their 7th grader take the SAT.
Second, my seventh grader has taken standardized tests every year since she was in the 3rd grade, and she has never shared her scores while she was in middle school. Neither daughter ever has. Our school encourages parents to keep this information private, so I never shared the scores with my daughter. Obviously, she knew she'd gotten a 95% in one area to be invited to take the SAT, but so did every other child who took them.
When SAT scores came out, none of the kids had any experience with what the numbers meant, and again, I didn't share the score with her until we had a talk about keeping the number private. I said, "You did really well for your age, but not well enough to be able to skip 8th grade and high school and go right to college." She laughed and said she was glad, and that was that.
If I asked my 13 year old daughter what her friends who took the SAT last year made, she wouldn't have any idea.
I think 7th grade is plenty old enough to start figuring out that some kids are smarter than you and some aren't. There are all sorts of rankings, and I think most kids by that age have figured out where they are in the lineup. To me it's no different than an Honor Roll or Headmaster's List - if you fall on one side of the numbers, you're on it - if you fall on the other side, you're not. Elementary school is too young for that, but the middle of middle school? I think it's perfectly reasonable for the ones who are bright enough to qualify to have the chance to see how they do. I don't think any parent in our school has ever had any regrets about letting their 7th grader take the SAT.