I don't feel bad for Jesse at ALL. He CHOSE his actions.
You have two kids. I hope you teach them that every choice has a CONSEQUENCE and to think them through
before hand. You can't tell me that Jesse James, at 41, had no understanding of the consequences of dipping his stick elsewhere, with
several women. It's not like he tripped, fell on top of them and it just happened. He is responsible for his actions.
He was selfish. Plain & simple. You reap what you sow. Because of his ACTIONS, VOLUNTARY CHOICES & DECISIONS, these are his consequences. He
proved he doesn't deserve to be a father to that newborn. He is a bad influence. He doesn't deserve to be a mate to Sandra. He called her his best friend. Well, he wasn't one back to her.
The people I feel bad for is Sandra & his children.
They got the repercussions of his actions. Those are the CONSEQUENCES of HIS actions. It must have been a triple heartbreak for Sandra. Her marriage was over. She's losing out on being a stepmother to kids she adores, and the life and future as a co-parent to that infant was destroyed.
Jesse destroyed all that. His actions, his decisions, consequences that affected
everyone.