We decided, after much research and a lot of talking to others, to stay at the Rio Mar. I thought the Ritz would be great too - but a lot of the reviews seemed negative so, we switched to the Rio Mar. It is a Wyndham resort and we have stayed at their resorts before. They are also running a huge "stimulus" package - buy 2 nights get 2 nights free. So, we are staying in an ocean front clean air room with a $100 resort credit and a 25% off spa services for only $810 (includes all taxes and resort fees). Not bad for 4 nights. We also booked with Jet Blue and from NJ to San Juan round trip for two came to $649 and change - also not bad.
Anyway, May is a long way away so knowing me, I will change this all - LOL!