Right?
When my contract was first sent out, the email from Fidelity said in bold letters "Please be assured that we will advise you as soon as we receive the Right of First Refusal decision. Disney can take up to 30 days to deliver the notification, so please be patient during this process."
If it's really up to 45 days, why wouldn't they say that?
At any rate, I don't see how this is a "battle" at all, let alone one that I could lose. Disney's own terms state that you only have to give them 30 days heads up before your closing date, and those same terms also state that if Disney doesn't render a decision before your closing date arrives, then that is considered the same as waiving their right of first refusal.
With that in mind, why would I ever grant them more than the 30 days that they require of me?