Right now I am so mad someone calm me down

[kejoda]

My Mil and Bil are staying with us for the weekend. Tomorrow my bil is going to get his girls from his ex-wife. I just found out that the money that my bil gave the girls for the summer was taken by the ex and she refuses to give it back. She claims that she needed it to feed them for the summer. What about the 91/2months that he has the girls and doesn't get the child support he is supposed to? I cannot tell you how much I hate this women. Were not even sure that he is getting the girls since she says she doesn't have the gas money. I know there is no way I can go with my bil to meet the girls tomorrow but so help me if she doesn't show up .

Why would someone do this to their children?

 

[fireplug]

It is very sad when people use their children as pawns to exact pain against an ex. Hang in there it will get better one day.

Till then lots of "PD".

Steve

 

[helenabear]

Beccy, I have no idea how some people can do this to kids... especially their own children. I do hope that he can get the girls tomorrow and that somehow this will all work out. PD coming their way and your way {{{hugs}}} to you all.

 

[catsrule]

{{{HUGS}}} Beccy. Hope things get better.

 

[Ricola]

{hugs}

I don't have any answer for you. All I know is that the children need as much calm and stability as they can possibly get in their lives. Please, be the best auntie you can be, considering the situation! You have an opportunity to have a big influence on then, I believe.

I hope all goes well for you tomorrow.

-Ric

 

[kejoda]

Your right Ric, I do. Thats why I'm going to wait until later in the day to see them. Both girls knows what thier mother is like but she is their mother and they do love her. Not thats she deserves them at all. Hopefully next year we will be able to have them stay with us part of the summer. we were going to hire them to be mother helpers but couldn't when Tim lost his job. Hopefully we can do that next summer. Paul has full custody so he doesn't have to send then full time. Truth is he has to force the girls to go. they want to see their Mom but not for the whole summer.

 

[shep]

((hugs)) HP!