OSUZorba
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Yeah. My 2 yo DD has spent 3 weeks at WDW, been on 2 cruises, Hawaii, Multiple National Parks. People say the "they won't remember it" line all the time, but that doesn't mean it has no effect on them. My DD still talks about her last trip to WDW and cruise which were in September and October. My earliest memory is actually from a vacation when I was 25 months and it's not an implanted one.This ^
My entire life, nearly 30 years of which have been visiting Disney off and on, I left my kids home with grandma and grandpa. I never regretted it and my vacations were so much more enjoyable because I didn't take a tired, cranky, whiney kid. My rule was that I took no one under 7 years old. Never had to push a stroller or any of that nonsense while in the parks. It didn't matter because they wouldn't remember it anyway. I took my boys when they were 10+ and we had a great time, every time.
And then I got a grandchild. And everything changed for me.
My granddaughter will be just shy of 3 when we go this time. I don't mind pushing a stroller or taking her to a shaded area to let her nap or calm her down while her parents enjoy the rides. In fact, she will have a 6 week old brother then too (and he will be going with us). I don't mind lugging the car seat, stroller, bags, etc on the plane. The thought of all that doesn't bother me in the slightest even though I'd have stayed home before I did that with mine when they were little.
My moment of change was when someone once told me...."It's not about what they will or won't remember. It's about what YOU will remember." These are memories I want to have with my granddaughter. I don't care that she won't remember it. Because I will![]()
Regardless of the impact on her, I've loved all my time with her and I will remember it forever. I remember and think about her excitement when she met Olaf at 6 months, I don't bother to think about how she slept horribly at the hotel. I get far better quality time with her on any vacation than I ever do at home.
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