I went about three weeks ago with my boyfriend (now fiance!).
We did Napa Rose's Chef's Counter---it was a splurge, but well worth it! It was neat to watch the kitchen work seamlessly, every single dish was amazing and it was just a neat, romantic experience.
We also did a lunch (nice sit-down break at DCA) at Carthay Circle. It's old Hollywood glam, really classy and nice space.
If you're catching Fantasmic, go for the Blue Bayou package! Nothing beats its atomosphere!
We did the Dessert Package for WOC for the first time too and it was totally the way to go. The dessert plate was yummy (very generous portion, definitely have a light dinner that night) and the servers were attentive and drinks were yummy!
I hope you guys have a fantastic time!