I think there is a lot of confusion about this meal.  Each dining party is seated at their own table.  At breakfast there's a cold buffet with fruits and pastries, then each table is given a family style platter of hot breakfast foods - eggs, bacon, potatoes, etc.  At lunch and dinner,  you choose your entree from a menu.  Visit the cold buffet for your "appetizer" which includes a selection of salads, cold cuts, cheeses, etc.  Then you are served your lunch/dinner entree.  The princesses circulate the room during your meal.  After your party is finished with the meal, you are served dessert- family style. 3 selections are served on one large plate intended for sharing.