Sherry E
A lot of what you said is how I feel re:staying on site, so I guess if we do make the big trip to DL, I'll make sure to stay on site as it will probably be our only trip there (unless we fall in love and want to come back).
It's so hard to think of planning a trip that's not to my favorite place on earth though! I feel disloyal somehow, is that weird or what? LOl!!
I'm sure I would feel like a complete fish out of water trying to plan a WDW trip - not to mention disloyal, somehow!!
I think staying onsite will be very rewarding if you can manage it. It's hard to convince myself sometimes why it's worth it but then when I get to the hotel (whichever one it is), I remember why.
If you are accustomed to the very elaborate, detailed resort hotels of WDW, your best bet will definitely be to stay at GCH or DLH. PPH is much smaller than those two. In fact, I think the GCH was designed by the same person/people who designed the Wilderness Lodge (unless I am mistaken).
Because DLR is so much smaller than WDW, you will find that everything is so easy to get to and convenient. Picture this layout. Think of Downtown Disney (DTD) as a main thoroughfare or road that connects to all things. At one end of DTD you will find the
Disneyland Hotel. From there you start the walk through DTD, you pass by ESPN Zone, Rainforest Cafe, the Monorail station, Ralph Brennan's Jazz Kitchen, Naples, and all kinds of shops and other restaurants.
About mid-way through DTD (roughly), on your right-hand side will be the turn-off into the Grand Californian. If you decide to carry on through DTD and not turn into the GCH, then you walk a short way and you arrive at the security check point and the Esplanade, along with the ticket booths and turnstiles. So the Esplanade is basically at the opposite end of DTD. Look to your left and the gates to Disneyland are right there. Look to your right, and it's California Adventure. Or, if you are a hotel guest you can enter DCA through the special GCH entrance.
And if you exit out the front entrance of the GCH, you can cross the street and the Paradise Pier Hotel is right there.
So, yes, if you don't think you will be getting back to DLR any time soon, try to splurge and stay onsite to get the full DLR experience!