O.k. I've read a little more of this thread. I hope my additional contribution is helpful.
...It's vacation so we like to relax a bit in the morning and have never rushed around for a rope drop...
...Waiting in hours of lines is kind of like throwing our money away...
Generally, you can't have it both ways.
On my first night of my first "real" trip to WDW, in 1996, before even legacy fastpass, my partner (former Jungle Cruise skipper) says to me: "What time should I set the alarm for?" I said "It's vacation...I don't want to set an alarm at all!" He replied "Going to WDW isn't that kind of vacation. Sleeping in is for the beach or the mountains. Unless you want to spend hours standing in line, you need to get to the park when it opens."
So we set the alarm, got up early, had breakfast, and were at the MK for what was then just called "Early Entry" - now morning "Extra Magic Hours."
We went to Fantasyland and experienced five attractions in the first hour. No waiting - just the length of time it took to walk through the queue area. Then to Space Mountain for when it opened, and had maybe a five minute wait.
We passed through Fantasyland again around 10:30 a.m. Every attraction that we had literally walked on now had posted wait times of 45 minutes and more.
I know that was 1996, but my more recent experience (Dec. 2013) was the same.
If you don't want to spend hours waiting in line, simply get out of bed early and get to the parks for rope drop. Enjoy your sleeping in vacations at the beach.
And make your FP+ reservations at your afternoon/evening park. I totally loved my MSEP and Wishes FP+! I normally don't even do those because of the crowds and the shoving. Having those reserved areas was really wonderful!