Not just my town, lots of neighboring towns (towns are pretty small here). I live within 5 miles of homes worth millions of dollars, and public housing. We have city buses, so people who work those jobs typically don't own homes here. I have never come across another parent working at the retail shops here, although many own their own businesses, and work blue collar (landscapers, contractors, mechanics).
I feel sorry for people who went from their parents' homes to their married homes. A chapter of life was missed.[/QUOTE]
Ahhh, there's one of the differences I found so interesting in the past. Getting married in your 20s is not unusual at all around here, but maybe that's because we aren't located in a "movers and shakers" capital of the world...
I married at 22, a month out of college and my parent's home. Honestly, I don't get the difference between marrying him and just living with him. It would have amounted to the same thing, really. We were still both establishing ourselves in our careers, still did all the fun things young 20s like to to. What did we miss?? Married or not, I would not have traveled the world. I never had any intention of leaving my little corner of Indiana. And my husband had already seen more of the world than he ever wished to. He was thrilled to be home.
We had our first child two years later at 24. Because we were ready for that next step. By 49, we'll be empty nesters. I am glad, this is the timing and tempo of life that suited me. I have friends who didn't marry until their mid 30s and had their first child at 40. They are thrilled and have no regrets.
It's silly to say you
feel sorry for people who live a different lifestyle than you. We are perfectly happy with our choices and our lifestyle. They are perfectly happy with theirs. Just because someone lives life a bit differently than you doesn't mean there is something to
pity.