This story did in fact start with a wonderful, loving and adored Grandpa.

My Grandpa. Although we lived states apart all our lives, he was a special part of our lives, even more so in recent years. After losing our amazing Grandmother a few years ago, we became even closer with our Grandpa, who lived near Columbia, SC. We made many visits to SC and Grandpa came to see us in Texas as well. Unfortunately, Grandpa fell ill in early 2008. I made the decision to use my miles and jump on a plane with my 4 month old son to see Grandpa, as we felt this might be the end. Wow, was that the best decision I ever made. No matter what else was going on in my life, a new baby, demanding job or lacking funds, jumping on that plane for family was the only thing that mattered.
Now why jump on a plane with a baby all by myself? Well Grandpa was the reason my son exists. You see, after struggling for a year with trying to conceive on our own and then another dreadful year of fertility drugs (clomid- 6 months), shots (follistim- 2 months), artificial insemination (4 tries) and countless other tests, poking and prodding……..we finally took the big step and did IVF, or in vitro fertilization, or otherwise known in the old days as a ‘test tube baby’. Insurance doesn’t cover many fertility treatments and the drugs alone can run $1500 a month, not counting the 8-10 ultrasounds each month and accompanying copays for doctor visits, lab tests etc. Oh and don’t forget the pregnancy tests. I should have bought stock in those. Or at least a jumbo pack at Sam’s or Costco! Regardless, we were weary, tired, emotionally wrecked and low on funds. Our options were nearly exhausted. We didn’t have the $10,000 handy to pursue a cycle of IVF.
I spoke with my grandpa and he offered to pay for our treatment. He went above and beyond anything we ever expected. Fertility treatments in general are very tough- financially, emotionally and physically. So knowing we didn’t have to worry about the financial part took a huge burden off our shoulders. It was a rough time for me. My family and friends were extremely supportive . And on March 1, 2007, we got the news we had waited for, I was pregnant! One of the two embryos we transferred had ‘taken’ and our little guy was growing! We were so relieved and thankful it had worked the first time. I know many do multiple IVF treatments and beyond and I count my blessings everyday that it worked for us.
So because Grandpa helped fund our treatment, we are now proud parents to a healthy and happy 16 month old little boy. My grandpa was so excited for us. It made it all the more special, that given his strict religious views, he still helped us. I know IVF can be considered an ethical mine field for some. I couldn’t wait to take my son to meet my Grandpa, what I knew might be for the first and last time.
At 4 months old, my son William was a trooper flying with me solo. We arrived that afternoon and immediately went to the hospital to see my Grandpa. He had always been a very tall, strong figure. I wasn’t prepared to see him so frail looking in his final days. However, my parents told me he had rallied the night before and so their hopes were up. He had been taken off the ventilator, but looked in bad shape. He acknowledged we were there, but could not really speak. I put William close to him to he could have a good look at his Great Grandson. I said hello, hugged and kissed him. A few hours later, Grandpa became completely unresponsive, no longer reacting to anything. By 11pm that night, Grandpa was on his way to meet his great maker. We all gathered around his bed, friends and family alike to say our good byes and share our final thoughts of love and gratitude. My son slept soundly in his stroller in the corner of the room as my Grandpa took his last breath.

It was almost though as Grandpa had held on those few hours though that day for me to arrive. It was just 2 hours after I got there and introduced him to William that he became unresponsive. Grandpa knew we were on the way, and I think he found the strength to hold on a little longer to meet William.
So what on earth does this awfully sad story have to do with Disney? Well Grandpa left a generous inheritance to my parents. Grandpa had talked about us all doing a family vacation in the mountains and was always talking about vacationing together. My parents have always been huge Disney fans, taking us on our first trip when us three girls were just little ones, even though money was scarce. Now, my parents finally had the means to take a Disney trip with the entire family again and go in style! While we’ve been many times as a family, the last time in 2005, we’ve always budgeted somewhat carefully and saved prudently to make our dreams of magic come true and then, only every few years. My parents have always dreamed of staying at the Wilderness Lodge. We’ve toured it many times, but they didn’t ever think it would be within their means. Now that it is, they are treating all of us to a 10 day/9 night courtyard room stay at the Wilderness Lodge, with dining plan. For 15 people. Yes 15!!!
Family is very important to us. So it only made sense in my parents eyes that they would share my Grandpa’s legacy with us in this way. And I bet my Grandpa will be smiling down on us, especially as my son sets his eyes on Mickey Mouse or the castle for the first time.
So in May 2007, the trip became a reality. We discussed details and booked at the 500 day mark with
Dreams Unlimited, who I highly recommend. We are all so thrilled to experience this great trip together and I almost worry it won’t live up to the great expectations we have built up for it! Anyone else ever do that? LOL Sometimes the planning and anticipation is half the fun.
So here we are- how our trip came to be. Started off a little sad, but Prince Charming will ensure we have a happy ending!
Stay tuned to learn about the details of our trip and the wild, and I mean WILD cast of characters.
Grandpa, my sister Wendy, her daughter Ally and my dad
and my wonderful parents- making this trip possible and all the more magical!!! They are the most generous people I know and we can't wait to experience the trip together.
Thanks guys!!!