Yes, you can have both massages yourself, but you should try to convince your DH to try it for himself, it is heavenly.
DH and I had never had a massage before our last cruise, but we had the REAS pkg and thoroughly enjoyed the couples massage.
The massage therapists are very good at what they do. Neither of us were at any time uncomfortable during the massage. They were very professional and it felt great. DH had the well being massage which consisted of the back of the legs, back, neck and shoulders, then turning over and getting the front of the legs and the arms. I had the spa teaser which consisted of the same back massage, then turning over and having a facial and scalp massage.
It was sooooo relaxing we both felt like limp noodles walking out of there after it was over. I have never had 1 hour fly by so quickly.
It is because of this that we are planning on adding the REAS to this years cruise also.