AnOtHeRdIsNeYfReAk
Self-Proclaimed Super Genius
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2005
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Won't get any sympathy from me! Just this morning I called out the 100s on the spelling pre-tests. Anyone I didn't call knows they didn't make 100. Guess they need to try harder next time.![]()
I hate the whole "If they didn't do well, they need to try harder" mentality. (Especially from teachers. I've had to deal with it from a few of DN's teachers.) My niece works her butt off just to maintain a low 80's average. She's in the dining room for at least 4 hours a night, and I even have to make her put everything away for dinner. Not every child is able to do well in school. That being said though, I don't mind 100's or high 90's being read out loud. As long as those students trying hard receive some sort of praise as well. Praising some while making others feel bad is not a good way to instill confidence in children. Now, making the lazy kids squirm is another thing altogether.
I had a classmate who had severe learning issues. He tried so hard, but never met our teachers high standards. One time, he had to turn in a paper he worked very hard on. We werent allowed to type it up, so it was hand written. She took one look at it and tore it up in front of the whole class saying that his chicken scratch wasnt worth her time. He stopped trying after that.![]()
Man, does that ever sound like one of dear nieces teachers from a few years back. After my sister passed away DN had some trouble catching up with assignments. She had one teacher hand back a paper with a big red F written on it because it was late. Um.. her mom just died and the poor kid already had trouble with big assignments because of her learning disabilities. It took a while before she put that much effort into an assignment again.