My son Christian has Pallister-Killian syndrome, a very very rare chromosome disorder( chromosome 12.) Most babies who have it die in utero. If they make it birth, 60% will die before their first year. If they make it to 2 years their chances are pretty good that they'll be okay. PKS kids are profoundly mentally retarded, hearing & vision impaired, have seizures. Most of them never walk, talk or have any self-care skills at all; very few can eat, they have feeding tubes.
We were soooo soooo lucky. PKS is identifiable by amnio but we had declined it because we knew we would never abort, no matter what. It took 2 years to diagnose, over 200 blood tests. Finally a skin biopsy told the tale. The thing is, if we had known all along that he had this we probably wouldn't have tried so hard to teach him some skills. We might have just sat back and said, "Well, they all have feeding tubes, so CHristian will have a feeding tube" or "Well, they don't walk or communicate so what's the point of PT?" Instead, because we didn't know what was wrong, we did everything but turn ourselves inside out trying to break into his little world. And Christian did the near-impossible--he learned to sit, walk, run, ride a horse. He laughs and plays jokes, drinks from a straw, uses a spoon> He's even trip-trained (a type of potty training where you take them at certain intervals and they go, kinda like Pavlov's dogs.

) Two years ago Christian figured out how to swim and back float! He's going on 3 years swimming in the Special Olympics and in fact, this year will be joining the distance walking team.
Pretty good for a kid who should have died.
