My DD (13 at the time) & I had afternoon tea last summer & she keeps asking, "When can we go back?" We made an ADR for right when they opened & it was very quiet & peaceful & our server was quite friendly & informative. My DD was trying to pretend she was so sophisticated with her pinky extended, but she dropped the cup onto her saucer & made a huge clatter in such a quiet setting. She immediatly put her hand over her mouth, but our server was approaching right at that moment said so sweetly, "Don't worry honey, I do that all the time!" So it was very elegant, but not so stuffy that we felt uncomfortable.
As for the Grand Tea, I personally would not do it again, because it ended up being a little too much for me. I think next time I would order everything a la carte & get the tea, sandwiches (sticking with my favorites), scones (so tender & flaky...yum) & a glass of champagne.
Everything is brought to your table once you order, and if you did order the Grand Tea you would be given a pre-chosen selection of sandwiches (not a fan of the pear & gorganzola but I loved the chicken salad), pate, and onion tart (did not care too much for either one), then you will be brought a scone & rasberry tart (found the tart a bit dry), but if you decide on pastries, you do choose which ones you would like & I believe we were shown a sample of the pastries to decide from.
It really was a lovely way to have some quiet Mother/Daughter time away from DH & DS (athough they would be welcome too, we just preferred to ditch them

) & we would definitely do it again some time!
