I LOVE baby products. I have had just about all of them at one point or another and with 4 kids, have needed about all them!!
BEST ITEM TO GET!!!!
1) BABY BJORN carrier!!! Yes, they are very pricey, but they are the best carrier on the market! DO NOT register for a cheapy model! There truely is a HUGE difference in front carriers--I have had 3 of them and this one really is tops! If you do not get one for your shower, this is something you should buy on your own (look on e-bay).
2) Snap n Go or Universal car seat carrier type stroller!! This was also found by experience! I had one of those BULKY stroller/car seat combos--I hated it. The stroller barely fit into my trunck and it was way too heavy! The Snap n Go is a lightweight stroller frame that the car seat attaches onto. It is light and compact!
3) A GOOD stroller that is compact, light and streers well! My best advice test drive them and fold them --- see how you like it. Also ask if you can see how it fit in your trunk. Babies R Us will let you do this! I have gone through 12 yes, 12 strollers! I really highly advise you to test them out!!!
4) A swing--which you already have
5) Bouncey Seat--which you already have
6)Size 1 Diapers. Your baby may be small, but it may be big and will not fit into newborn diapers. If s/he is small s/he will grow into the size 1's, but if s/he is big, newborn size will never fit.
7) Mylecon (sp) gas drops, baby Tylenol, Hylands teething tablets, Johnson's soft washcloths with soap in them, WASHCLOTHS!
THINGS NOT TO REGISTER FOR:
-too many crib sheets. How many will you really go through? Max. 3
--Diaper Genie works great for a week, or untill the first poopy diaper goes into it. The stinck never goes away!
--Bottles and Nuks--until you know what type your baby will like, you are better off waiting!
--register for a doorway jumper only if your doorways will accept it. Mine will not.
Good Luck!